Memoir | The Bus Stop | Part VI of VI

As the clock struck the end of the workday, I found myself making my way toward the bus stop, eager to catch the 5:30 p.m. bus that would take me home. Joining me at the bus stop were other women from the neighboring government agencies. As I crossed the street towards the bus stop, I noticed women converging from all directions, each with their own stories about work. The bus stop became a spot where we women exchanged our workday woes and challenges.

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Closing my office took a good thirty minutes, as I packed up my personal belongings, organized my emails, and tidied up my desk. With a quick farewell to my boss, I swiftly made my way out of the office, navigating through the maze of corridors and finally stepping out of the heavy brass door of the building.

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Once at the bus stop, the pleasantries were exchanged before the floodgates of venting opened!

• Sandy grieved about a colleague who had introduced a new employee to everyone in the office except her. She couldn’t help but feel invisible, especially since she was dressed head-to-toe in blue. She couldn’t fathom how someone could miss her with such a vibrant outfit. “People can be so mean and thoughtless,” she sighed.

• Nancy grumbled about being on restricted sick leave, as her boss believed she was taking advantage of her leave privileges.

• Mary Ann was annoyed by the last-minute request from two desk officers in her office who needed travel authorization orders and foreign embassy passport visas for their upcoming overseas trip. With only a week left, navigating through all the necessary approvals and obtaining the visa in time seemed impossible.

• Leslie felt betrayed by a co-worker who had purposely left her off a memorandum that required her input. Frustrated, she had brought the issue to her director’s attention.

• Andrea worried that the computer software she had set up for a high-level principal might need some modifications.

• Janice whimpered about the overwhelming workload and revealed that she had already completed the paperwork to retire.

• Delia was upset after a heated argument with her supervisor, resulting in her boss telling her never to return to the office and threatening to stop her retirement annuity. Despite the turmoil, Delia was reassigned to work at her bureau’s executive office until her retirement.

• Carla shared the news that her office director had been demoted due to his failure to follow through on an important task.

• Catherine discovered that her colleagues had secretly established a system allowing desk officers to access their cleared papers without her knowledge. The betrayal and hurt she experienced were overwhelming, leading her to make the difficult decision to file for retirement.

• David, a male secretary, shares his experience of frequently encountering derogatory remarks about his profession. The outdated stereotype that secretarial work is exclusively for women has subjected him to unfair judgment and prejudice.

• Diane recounted an incident where her boss instructed her to address the clutter and untidiness in her office, which had unfortunately led to an unpleasant odor and the presence of rat droppings. She discovered the existence of a deceased mouse in her office, adding to the already distressing situation caused by her office’s filth and smell.

• As we boarded the bus, our lovable friend Marcello, also known as Marco, shouted for us to hold the bus. He complained that his boss had forbidden him from wearing women’s press-on fingernails to the office. In response, Marco filed a complaint with the department’s newly established LGBTQ Legal Rights office.

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A little bit of work-related gossip at the Bus Stop always seemed to lighten our spirits. And with that, our journey home began.

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