Shelley Wenger
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Small town country girl in southern Pennsylvania. Raising two boys on a small farm filled with horses, goats, chickens, rabbits, ducks, dogs, and a cat. Certified veterinary technician and writer at Virtually Shelley.
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Signs of Caretaker Burnout
Burnout is a real problem when it comes to care taking. Many people are so focused on taking care of their loved ones that they forget about themselves. They continue to put their loved one's health first, and their own suffers. However, there is a chance that, if their health goes downhill enough, they won't be able to continue to take care of their loved ones.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Reasons to Get a Caregiver
Watching your parents get older can be really hard. For this reason, it is often challenging to figure out when it is time to step in and offer help. Even harder is figuring out when you need to get a caregiver for your parents. Many adult children try to help as much as they can, but it isn't often enough.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Benefits of Having
The day may come when you need to hire a lawyer (or at least consult with one). Often, when this occurs, it is a scary time. You may have been accused of a crime that you didn’t commit. You may also be facing jail time if you lose your battle. Another reason that you may need a lawyer is if you are going through a divorce. If you have children, you may be scared that you are going to lose them.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Criminal
Five Ways to Prepare
Driving in the winter can bring even more challenges. Though most people only worry about the snow, the truth is that ice can be just as dangerous (if not more). Black ice can sneak up on you if you aren't careful. You won't know that you hit it, until you have no control over your vehicle.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Lifehack
Imposter Syndrome
Though people have been doubting themselves throughout time, it finally got a name in 1978. It is called imposter syndrome. This basically means that a person doubts themselves. However, it can be even worse than just being insecure and having some doubts. In fact, many who suffer from imposter syndrome are so scared, they are unable to do anything about it.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Motivation
Six Tips to Declutter Your Home
Too many people live in clutter. They have things all over their home or apartment, making it seem smaller than it needs to be. However, it doesn't have to be this way. You can make a few small changes, and it could make a big difference in your life.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Lifehack
Tips to Engage Your Employees
Finding quality employees is never easy. You may have to search for weeks (or even months) to find someone who is qualified for the position that you are offering. However, qualifications are not everything. You need to find someone who is going to be an asset to your company.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Motivation
Tips to Talk to Your Parents
It can be really hard to watch your parents as they get older. It can be difficult to watch things that used to come so easily to them become a struggle. Even daily tasks like keeping up after the laundry and house can become too much. The lawn, which used to always be mowed, may look like it has been weeks since anyone touched it!
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Tips to Keep Your Marriage Alive
There are many jobs that keep families apart. Many businessmen and women travel across the country for their job. They may spend a few days or even weeks away from their spouse and family. Commercial truck drivers are also known for spending a lot of time away from their family in order to provide for them.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Should You Have an Open Adoption?
When you decide to adopt a child, there are many different options that you may not have ever thought of. You might want to adopt a child from another country, though there are plenty in the United States that are available also. You may want to find one who has some special needs, because you want to give him or her the best life possible. There are even times when you can choose to adopt a child, while the mother is still pregnant.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Signs of Stress as a Caregiver
It doesn't matter if you have been thrown into caregiving, or you have had time to gradually become one. Either way, it can be very stressful and hard. Many caregivers still have to take care of their families and their loved ones. They may have their own house to care for, along with their parent's home too. Many continue to work full-time on top of their caregiver duties.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Psyche
