Paranneting/Anne Reboa
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educator, consultant, social worker (msw), blogger and mama
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Being Second Rank
I have always felt under supported. Not by my close family but by my friends. I see other people whose friends support everything that they do. They share their work, watch their YouTube videos, buy what they sell, do whatever they can to help support their friends. Yet every time I ask for support it seems like I am asking someone to move mountains.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Humans
310 Nutrition Changed My Daily Routine
Those shakes you’ve seen all over the internet... you’ve seen their ads and you’ve seen celebrities posting about them, too. If you haven’t tried them yet, I know you’re at least a little curious about them. Kill your curiosity here and learn why I’m obsessed with 310 Nutrition.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Longevity
The Most Chaotic Year of My Life Helped Me Become 'Me' Again
2018—I literally started my year with a 48 hour stomach bug. Looking back on the year I had, I find symbolism in my 48 hours of vomiting (not to be crude, just telling it how it is). My year was an emotional hell, with what seemed to be one problem after another, losing people from my life I did not imagine ever losing and even losing a part of myself I had become so comfortable with. Much like throwing up does for your body, 2018 violently projected all toxic and bad things out of my life.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Motivation
22 Lessons I've Learned by 22
Life isn't automatically happy. You have to bring happiness to your life. Genuine people are rare. Few people are raised correctly, and few have any regard for those who aren't themselves. Remain as genuine as possible, and keep genuine people around you, even if that means dropping a few friends. You might have to work for things other people are just given. There will always be spoiled people, but spoiled can only do so much. Don't get discouraged at the privilege others may have over you and continue to work hard for what you want until you get it. How you are perceived by others may not always reflect how you perceive yourself. It is important to not let how others view you affect how you feel about yourself. However, if you are noticing repeated problems with friends or in any type of relationship in your life, it may be time to look in the mirror and come to terms that you might be the person in your way of happiness, healthy relationships, or success. Don't get caught up in other's opinions, but if you continue having the same issues with different people, you may need to make some adjustments. Nothing is wrong with accepting who you are (and that maybe you have some jealous admirers) and nothing is wrong with realizing your attitude needs an adjustment. Allow your expectations of others to be adjusted based on how they treat you. Instead of repeatedly allowing yourself to be disappointed, hurt, etc. by the same person, adjust what you would expect of them by what they have already shown you they are capable of. The same way someone proves to you that they are a good friend, partner, etc., they will prove to you that they are a bad one. Being nice, civil, or respectful to those you do not particularly care for is not "being fake." One of my biggest pet peeves is when someone will say that being nice to someone you don't particularly care for is "fake." It is being mature. Make time to be lazy, but do not let it keep you from being productive. Yes, time manage, but manage your time well enough to spend a few hours doing absolutely nothing. Consider it your mental reset. Take life day by day, tackle your workload day by day, and keep your "bigger picture" in the back of your mind. Up until recently I would easily get overwhelmed by my responsibilities and what was expected by me. I work 15 hours this week, have four papers, two tests, three quizzes and a project due this month, four sorority events, a friend's birthday... I'll never do this all and get good grades and now I might lower my GPA and chances of getting into the grad school I like! STOP THINKING THIS WAY. Think in short term, for long term benefit. If I take on my responsibilities by what have immediate needs and future needs, it takes away a lot of my stress and concern, giving me a clearer mind to do other things. Apply this daily and you can handle your life much more easily. Budget money to treat yourself. You're working for your money, you should enjoy some of it! Just make sure you take care of the necessities first. Learn how to prioritize. Pretty self explanatory. Get your sh** together! Drop those who believe "if you mean something to them, they will make time for you." We're all busy in one way or another, and I shouldn't feel obligated to spend the little free time I get sitting on my phone texting people so they know they are important to me. Adult friendships are not constant or even consistent in contact or how much we see each other. Life is too fragile. Tell the people you love that you love them every chance you get. Be sentimental. Create memories as often as you can. Let go of bitterness. If something has already happened, do not continue to carry it into another day. Learn your lessons, accept your losses, and keep it pushing. If it doesn't impact you or your life directly, stop carrying such intense emotion about it. What someone else chooses to be, to do, anything—if it does not directly involve YOU, it is not your business to get bothered by it. Learn how to be accepting, not just tolerant. Society's views are ever changing, and this is in part due to new educational findings. Do not merely ignore something because it does not impact you directly, and do not dismiss it because you refuse to educate yourself on it. Ignorance is bliss, but ignorance is also counterproductive. Allow others to have an opinion, especially if it is different from yours. You do not need to comment on everyone's status or post that does not line up with what you believe. Just because their opinion is not the same as yours does not make it wrong, and you have absolutely no right to tell someone their opinion on something is "incorrect." Don't plan your life, outline what you want in it, and work towards achieving it without time restraints. You try to plan, and the universe laughs. Work diligently for what you want, but don't set yourself up for frustration or disappointment! Don't expect people to have the same heart that you do, follow the same morals as you do, or be the same type of friend as you are. No one comes from your same family life, background, environment, etc., and that all goes into who we are as a person. You may be lucky enough to come across a few people who match what you give, but don't get hurt over those who do not. Success is not linear. You have to have your bad days to appreciate the good ones, and your failures to learn how to succeed the next time around. You'll get there, but it won't always be smooth sailing. Check in on your friends and family members, even if they seem to be ok. Life is hard for everyone, and some people are better at hiding their emotions than others. Don't ever assume someone does not need your attention or love. Do not rely on other people to be a part of how you identify yourself, feel about yourself, or feel about your life. You are your own person, to the very core. Create a self that feels complete on its own, and love it for all that it is. Build a life centered around what you want, what you love, and what makes you happy in the least selfish way possible. Self explanatory—only surround yourself with what you consider to be good things and set out to prosper in happiness. It will be constant readjustment, but that's all that life is.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Motivation
To My New Hero in Heaven
To my new Hero in Heaven, I think it goes without saying that we miss you more than anything and that none of us can go a single day without thinking of you at least three times. I'm sure I'm not the only one who closes my eyes and tries to hear your voice in my head or imagine how much better it would feel if you were sitting next me. We all lost a huge piece of ourselves when we lost you, though we know in some way you are still here.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Families
Keto Coffee: Your New Best Friend
Keto coffee has exploded in popularity over the past year with the growing obsession of the keto diet. Keto diets are high in proteins and fats, and low on carbs. People have had huge success with the keto diet, but it requires a lot of diligence and if you're Italian like I am, giving up carbs is next to impossible.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Longevity
Knowing Our Company
Monat is a premium haircare line that is 100 percent vegan, cruelty free, toxin free, and naturally based. What sets our products apart from every other in the industry is simple—it is our science. Monat is the only haircare company that produces products which penetrate all three layers of each hair strand, nourishing from the inside out. Our products will detox your locks to help thicken and add shine to your strands, while additionally helping to stimulate hair follicles to promote growth and volume.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Blush
Hosting a Facebook Party
Hosting a Facebook Monat Party is an easy and fun way to make some extra cash and get involved with an amazing company! Monat is the fasting growing company within the United States, United Kingdom, and Canada, and surpassed one billion dollars in just two years of being a company. Monat produces products that are 100 percent cruelty free, toxin free, vegan, and naturally based. What sets their products a part from all others is how they work. Their products penetrate hair follicles at the very core to produce healthy locks and remove toxins from the scalp. They also penetrate the inside of each hair strand to reverse damage, prevent frizz, produce shine, thicken each strand, and lift the roots. Monat's product line includes hair products for both women and men, along with children. All adult products are also anti-aging for both hair and skin.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Lifehack
Working as My Influencer
Being an influencer can be tricky, and often comes with little to no reward. We may get free products here and there, but our efforts in promoting such products often comes without commissions. While not everyone wishes to make risky investments for the gain of potential income, I am offering a better solution to fellow influencers to make money from their posts without entirely emptying their pockets.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Journal
Check on Your Strong Friends
The strong friend... we all have them—and if we don’t have them, we are them. It’s hard to be the strong friend. You don’t show off your vulnerability much, and you probably don’t cry in front of your friends all that much either. You’re the one who offers endless advice and support, and are ALWAYS there to check in on your friends and make sure they’re okay. And while it’s great to be the strong friend, it can also be really difficult. Feeling the need to stay strong and put together even when things go wrong is no easy task. Let’s face it—it’s just how we are wired, but it doesn’t make life’s problems disappear. Because you’re so used to being strong, it is difficult for you to express what you are feeling in any way that isn’t nonchalant. You hope your friends have realized this about you, but it seems every time you need them the most, they ignore any signs of help you are so desperately giving.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Humans
Arbonne Essentials: Product Review
Arbonne is a company which specializes in products that are vegan, non-GMO, and toxin-free. They have a team of specialists all over the United States and in many other countries all over the world. Arbonne bans 2,000 chemicals from their products to ensure that they are as safe and beneficial as possible. Every year, we as a society become more health-conscious and more protective over what we allow to enter our bodies. Whether it is something we digest or put onto our skin, our body absorbs whatever it is and enters it directly into our blood stream. I was contacted by specialist Shannon Brown, who generously provided me with Arbonne's Fit Chews and Daily Protein Boost.
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa7 years ago in Longevity
Profile Articles: What Are They and How Can I Have My Own?
What is a profile article? Simply put, a profile article is almost like your résumé with an added background that helps tell your story, who you are, and what you do to the world. Profile articles are beneficial to anyone—use yours as a way to communicate who you are to future employers or business partners by sharing your link in any social media profiles, use it as a way to promote your business/side hustle, or promote yourself in any way you would like!
By Paranneting/Anne Reboa8 years ago in Journal
