Beyond The Surface
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Master’s in Psychology & Philosophy from Freie Uni Berlin. I love sharing knowledge, helping people grow, think deeper and live better.
A passionate storyteller and professional trader, I write to inspire, reflect and connect.
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I. THE THINGS WE SAY TO PHOTOGRAPHS The photograph sits on the bookshelf like it always has, crooked in its frame, sun, faded at the corners, but defiant in its stillness. I don’t remember placing it there. Maybe Mom did, years ago. Maybe it simply appeared the way grief does, quietly, without asking.
By Beyond The Surface10 months ago in Humans
How to Identify an A**hole(Before they Ruin Your Life)
A-holes don’t always reveal themselves right away. In fact, some are incredibly likable at first. They know how to charm, manipulate, and play the role of a decent person until it no longer benefits them.
By Beyond The Surface10 months ago in Confessions
Mind Viruses
1. Why Ideas Spread Like Viruses Have you ever wondered why some ideas refuse to die, even when proven false? Why do myths, conspiracies, and irrational beliefs spread so quickly and survive for generations? The answer lies in memetics, the study of how ideas evolve and spread like viruses.
By Beyond The Surface10 months ago in Psyche
Democracy's Dirty Secrets
Democracy is often seen as the gold standard of governance, a system where people have a voice, leaders are held accountable, and justice prevails. But what if democracy isn’t as perfect as we think? Even in the most celebrated democratic nations, deep flaws exist, hidden beneath polished speeches, elections, and constitutional promises.
By Beyond The Surface10 months ago in The Swamp
How to Overcome Porn Addiction
Let’s be real for a second. If quitting porn was easy, you wouldn’t be reading this. Maybe you’ve tried before. Maybe you’ve even gone a few days or weeks without watching but somehow, you always end up right back where you started. It’s frustrating. The mind becomes a battlefield, a war between who you are and who you want to be. It feels like your brain is working against you. And that’s because it is.
By Beyond The Surface10 months ago in Motivation
The Hidden Cost of Porn
Pornography has become one of the most accessible and normalized digital habits of the modern era. With millions of videos just a click away, it seems harmless, just another form of entertainment. It is an escape, a quick fix, a fleeting pleasure. But the truth is far more complex! Pornography is not merely a private indulgence but a potent force that rewires the brain, alters perception, and reshapes behavior. From the way it triggers dopamine surges to how it affects real-life relationships, porn’s impact is much deeper than most realize. This article dives into what porn really does to the brain and how it influences your thoughts, emotions, mental health, and life itself.
By Beyond The Surface11 months ago in Psyche
Top 6 Differences Between Real Democracy and Fake Democracy
Unmasking the Illusion: How to Distinguish True Democracy from Its Counterfeit Versions Democracy is often celebrated as the fairest system of governance. But is every nation that claims to be democratic truly democratic? The reality is more complicated. While some countries embody the core principles of democracy, transparency, fair elections, and civil liberties, others use the term as a façade, masking authoritarian control under a thin veil of voting and governance structures. The difference between real democracy and fake democracy isn’t always obvious, but recognizing these distinctions is crucial in understanding how power truly operates. In this article, I'm going to break down the 6 fundamental differences that separate genuine democracy from its deceptive counterparts.
By Beyond The Surface11 months ago in The Swamp
AI-Driven Trading
Four years ago, I started trading as a side hustle alongside my main job. I had always heard about trading bots but never trusted them, they just didn’t make sense to me. But with AI evolving so quickly, I decided it was time to take another look. I wanted to see what tools are available now and how they actually work.
By Beyond The Surface11 months ago in Trader
Top 10 Psychological Manipulation Tactiks in Everyday Life
Manipulation isn’t reserved for shadowy villains in blockbuster movies, it’s part of everyday life, quietly influencing the decisions we make and the opinions we hold. From subtle marketing tricks to calculated social strategies, psychological manipulation is all around us. The scariest part? You might not even realize it's happening. These tactics exploit human behavior in ways that are both fascinating and unsettling. Understanding them is the first step to regaining control over your thoughts and choices. Here are ten of the most effective and pervasive psychological manipulation techniques you encounter every day.
By Beyond The Surface11 months ago in Psyche
Andrew Tate: Guilty or Framed?
I recently had a discussion with my friends about Andrew Tate. During our talk, I realized how much their opinions were shaped by outside influence, just as I mentioned in my previous articles“The Illusion of Free Thinking” and “How Social Media Controls Your Thoughts Without You Realizing It” . This made me want to write this article, to show the importance of logical thinking and how to handle outside influence.
By Beyond The Surface11 months ago in Humans
