ASHLEY SMITH
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England based carer, live with my wife, her parents and 4 cats. will write for all areas but especially mental health and disability. though as stuff for filthy seems popular will try there . any comments, suggestions or requests considered
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Naked Outdoor Photography Part 2
As naked outdoor photography was my most successful piece so far, a sequel makes sense. If you missed part one, I talked about photographing and being photographed for a naked dare site, the idea being to have a person or couple naked in front of an object or a place. In my site, you got points for being in the top ten of each dare. There were around a hundred dares, which varied in terms of risk and complexity. For example, one dare was naked in a field. Therefore, you could go out into the countryside, find a field, get naked briefly and take the shot. The other end of the spectrum would be the train dare.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Filthy
Writing for Adult Sites
Writing for adult websites may seem simple, but in my albeit brief experience, it’s harder than you might think. I was trying to earn a few pounds by bidding to do small writing jobs brought to my attention by a go between agent. I wrote once about decorating concrete paths, another time about guns for a soldier doing a test at work. So, when the job called for 70 short pieces for a new adult web cam site I decided to give it a try. It sounded like an easy few pounds but was much harder to do then I thought it would.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Filthy
To Share or Not to Share?
Many people will try and add some spice to their sex lives, the question is should you keep your private and personal life private at all times? The usual way to share is with candid photographs or candid videos. These are simple to do with modern technology, but what’s best for them once taken. You might want to share your exploits but can you control what you share and what happens to them after you share them?
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Filthy
A New Outlook
After years of putting others first I have had to decide to put myself first. I have had problems with depression and breakdowns which pushed me to this decision. I haven’t decided to abandon everyone and everything totally but have decided on the way I need to go forward for my own good. This meant some hard decisions mixed with some upset but a few years after this I am far happier and far healthier.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Psyche
Different
It was once suggested that I like the extreme music I like and the often-strange films just to be different. While I am happy to be different, it’s not intentional. I like the music I like because of what it is, how I feel listening to it and the enjoyment I get. It’s not down to me if I am in a minority. My music doesn’t make the charts, rarely sells stadium tours but is truly cathartic and life saving for me.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Beat
Dating Sites
When looking for love many people turn to a dating site, either as an option or as an easier answer to actually looking for someone in a conventional way. Meeting people at a bar or a party can be difficult for some or simply too time consuming in today’s high-speed world. There are many sites you can choose, prices range from free to quite high. In theory, the more you pay, the more information you can access and more you can give for yourself.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Humans
Naked Outdoor Photography
Many like to use photography in their personal life, posing naked, or in revealing clothing for their partners. You could use your phone or invest in a proper camera for this. With digital cameras, you can keep everything private as there’s no need to get anything developed, as you had to do with cameras with films.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Filthy
Mid-Life Question
I have a seemingly easy question, unfortunately it has a hundred different answers depending on who you ask. Define old age, middle age, and being young? There are many factors to incorporate, many parameters to include and a pile of personal input which is why there will be so many answers. I ask as a forty-seven-year-old who’s not sure which, if any, bracket I fit in. Here are some of the things I think need consideration in working out the answer.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Longevity
Mind the Gap
Can there be too large an age gap in a relationship between a boyfriend and girlfriend? I ask for personal reasons because I am much older than my girlfriend and although we are happy, it’s our age gap that is brought up most by doubters. Personally, I think the argument over our age difference is as relevant as our height difference or eye colour difference. Though I am a foot taller and our eyes are different, that’s still not important.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Humans
In to the Pit
I have attended various concerts over a number of years, from pubs with 30 people through to festivals with over 100,000. Where I want to be and usually get to be is at the very, very front. Often described as the pit, this especially applies to the heavy metal, thrash metal gigs I attend. As I get older and more fragile I have to consider what I do a bit more so here is my survival guide.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Beat
