Afia Sikder
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"Hi, I’m Afia Sikder! I love crafting captivating stories, insightful articles, and inspiring Islamic narratives. Follow me for engaging reads that spark thought and emotion!"
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Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing the Imperfections of Being Human
Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing the Imperfections of Being Human Introduction From the earliest days of childhood, many of us are taught to strive for perfection. We get high marks, awards, and praise for our flawless appearance. In a world that celebrates idealism and perfection, anything less can feel like failure. But this pursuit of flawlessness often comes at a cost: anxiety, self-doubt, exhaustion, and a disconnect from our authentic selves.
By Afia Sikder8 months ago in Humans
Why I’m Proud of My Roots: A First-Generation Immigrant’s Voice
Why I’m Proud of My Roots: A First-Generation Immigrant’s Voice Introduction: Who I Am and Where I Come From They say identity is a journey. For me, it has been an ocean—deep, unpredictable, and endlessly vast. I was born in a land where my name was not strange, my accent was not noticeable, and my food didn’t need translation. But that land became a memory when my family moved across continents, chasing a better life and sacrificing almost everything familiar to start from zero. I became a first-generation immigrant overnight—young, confused, and silently holding the weight of two worlds.
By Afia Sikder8 months ago in Pride
Embracing Human Illnesses and Breaking Free from Perfectionism Part 2
Embracing Human Illnesses and Breaking Free from Perfectionism Introduction Many of us are instructed to strive for perfection from an early age. We’re praised for getting the highest grades, winning awards, or looking flawless. In a world that celebrates idealism and perfection, anything less can feel like failure. However, the cost of striving for perfection is frequently anxiety, self-doubt, exhaustion, and a separation from our true selves. Reclaiming your humanity is at the heart of this article, not just about the dangers of perfectionism. It’s about freeing yourself from the heavy burden of always needing to be perfect and stepping into the beautiful, messy, and real experience of being human. What perfectionism actually is, how it affects your life, and, most importantly, how to break free and accept your imperfection are all covered in this article. We'll walk through a comprehensive journey—from defining perfectionism and exploring its roots, to applying practical strategies and learning how to heal.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Humans
Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing the Imperfections of Being Human
Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing the Imperfections of Being Human Introduction From the earliest days of childhood, many of us are taught to strive for perfection. We get high marks, awards, and praise for our flawless appearance. In a world that celebrates idealism and perfection, anything less can feel like failure. But this pursuit of flawlessness often comes at a cost: anxiety, self-doubt, exhaustion, and a disconnect from our authentic selves.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Humans
The Power of Self-Pride: Why Believing in Yourself Changes Everything ( Last Part )
Chapter 7: Becoming Who You Really Are: Pride and Identity When you stop trying to be someone else and start accepting yourself for who you are, you develop self-pride. That includes everything from your culture to your voice to your past to your gender to your orientation to your dreams to your scars. This chapter discusses the process of discovering, accepting, and owning one's true identity, as well as the means by which doing so grants access to a profound and unwavering sense of pride.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Pride
The Power of Self-Pride: Why Believing in Yourself Changes Everything ( Part - 2 )
Chapter 4: Real-Life Stories of Self-Pride Transformation Self-pride is not just an idea—it’s a lived experience. It’s the fire that keeps burning in people who have been told they’re “too much,” “not enough,” or “don’t belong.” In this chapter, we celebrate those who took their pain and turned it into power—because they believed in themselves, even when no one else did.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Pride
The Power of Self-Pride: Why Believing in Yourself Changes Everything
🔶 Chapter 1: Understanding Self-Pride at Its Core In a world constantly pushing us to compare ourselves with others, self-pride becomes not just a personal trait, but a powerful act of resistance. However, exactly what is self-pride? Why is it so crucial to our identity and way of life? What exactly is self-pride? Self-pride is the deep, internal sense of respect, love, and value that we hold for ourselves—regardless of external validation. It’s the voice inside that says, “I matter. I am adequate. I am deserving. It is not the same as arrogance, which is motivated by a desire to feel superior to other people. Comparison is not required for self-pride. It's about speaking your truth without interfering with others'. Imagine a child drawing something with pure joy and pride—even if it's messy—in their effort. That is the essence of self-pride: a genuine, unfiltered appreciation of one's own existence. Self-Pride's Psychology Psychologists frequently discuss self-esteem, or how we feel about our perception of ourselves, and self-concept, or how we see ourselves. The intersection of these two is self-pride. It develops from:
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Pride
How I Learned to Take Pride in Who I Am
Title: How I Learned to Take Pride in Who I Am Introduction: The Search for IdentityFrom childhood to adulthood, we are constantly bombarded with messages about who we should be. The pressure to conform to social and cultural norms, family expectations, and other standards can cause us to forget who we really are. This is the story of how I finally learned to be proud of who I am, let go of shame, and embrace my authentic self. It’s not just my journey—but one many of us share in different ways.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Pride
How I Learned to Take Pride in Who I Am
Title: How I Learned to Take Pride in Who I Am Introduction: The Search for IdentityFrom childhood to adulthood, we are constantly bombarded with messages about who we should be. The pressure to conform to social and cultural norms, family expectations, and other standards can cause us to forget who we really are. This is the story of how I finally learned to be proud of who I am, let go of shame, and embrace my authentic self. It’s not just my journey—but one many of us share in different ways.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Pride
Title: Why Personal Narratives Matter: The Power of Human Stories
Title: Why Personal Narratives Matter: The Power of Human Stories Introduction: Humanity's Lifeblood We told stories before we could write, tweet, or even carve symbols into stone. Around ancient fires, under starlit skies, humans shared their lives through words—simple, raw, and powerful. These stories weren’t just entertainment; they were bridges—connecting generations, preserving culture, and giving meaning to life. Despite all the data and distractions of the digital age, one thing is still true: stories continue to move us. In ways that facts alone cannot, personal narratives—which are intimate, honest, and deeply human—can change minds, motivate action, and cultivate empathy. Why, then? What is it about personal storytelling that matters so much?
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Humans
How Human Memory Works: The Fascinating Science of Forgetting and Remembering
Title: How Human Memory Works: The Fascinating Science of Forgetting and Remembering The Mysterious Power of Memory One of the most fascinating and intricate aspects of our existence is human memory. From remembering the scent of your grandmother’s kitchen to recalling a complicated mathematical formula, memory is intricately tied to every part of our lives. Imagine your brain as a living library, constantly cataloging, storing, and retrieving information that defines who you are. But this system isn’t flawless. Trauma or illness can cause us to misplace keys, forget names, or even completely lose our memories. So, exactly how does memory work? What makes us forget? Furthermore, how can we enhance our memory? The depths of human memory, their formation and decay, and the prospects for memory science are examined in this article. How Does Human Memory Work? The process of encoding, storing, and retrieving information is at the heart of memory. It is an essential brain function that enables us to navigate the present, make plans for the future, and learn from the past. Without memory, our experiences would be fleeting and meaningless.
By Afia Sikder9 months ago in Humans
