The Evolution of Self Belief: From Doubt to Certainty

There are times when we doubt how far can we go. When we fall into the comfort of comparison and diminish our self-worth because of not being enough for the world. But what exactly is enough? Is being enough for the world a testament to how worthy we are, of our journey or is it a mere perception of the people who want us to conform to their level of understanding?

How often do you hear the phrase self-doubt has killed more dreams than failure? Our value is often determined by external factors around us. We are all conditioned to follow social norms and follow the timeline that society wants us to follow.Those who follow an unconventional path are labeled as failures or terrible because they don't conform to the norms. We must grow and support the claim of others. How many of us have been taught this? we are taught not to be too loud or bold.In our heads there are voices that constantly remind us how unworthy we are to achieve our dreams. When we achieve something we've worked hard for, our impostor syndrome kicks in and makes us believe it was just luck and not our hard work and talent. If we don't, we are our own worst enemies. we are grateful for the growth we have achieved and the journey that is unique to us.

Self-doubt chains us to our comfort zone and prevents us from reaching our highest potential. And the world we live in would use our confidence as a catalyst. It's important for us to know that the world sees you as the version of yourself that you think you are.The next time you're doubting yourself, here are some reminders to calm yourself down and calm your anxious thoughts.Know that your journey is unique to you and you don't have to conform to the reality of your life that anyone controls.You are not obligated to work according to set schedules; everything meant for you will happen at the right time. We live in absolute time zones with their own timelines.When in doubt, replace it with action. Remember, this does not mean moving mountains every day; it's all about setting small goals and being consistent with your workouts.

Faith is based on the promises we make to ourselves and others.Learn to reflect on your growth. In reality, you are living at least one of your dreams, the fulfillment of which your former self longed for. Believe in yourself and God. It will help you navigate the tough times.Finally, mistakes are allowed. Mistakes and failures are proof that you are trying to prove yourself.Improve yourself; you don't have to prove anything to anyone..

We often dull our shine to let the sparkle of someone else’s joy remains kindled. By doing that we fool ourselves into being kind and compassionate. On the contrary, the reality is that we are scared. Fearful for what they might think, of how we would be perceived if we took too much space. Let me tell you it is okay to be loud about what makes you happy. It is your responsibility to celebrate every little win you achieve. Life is an uncertain ride that plonks in misery and the next moment joy shows its presence through bits of sanguinity in the hopefulness of tomorrow.

I am learning to live life as it comes and be proud of my journey. We all should have pride in how far we have come and hold faith in how far we can go. Everyone is on a different journey and your individuality is what makes you uniquely you. I am sharing with the hope to remind you that no matter where you are in your journey, be proud of how far you have stridden on the path of life.

In celebration of your journey in the hard climb, I hope you hold pride in every victory of your one endeavor at a time.

_Hridya