Life advice: girls should never raise themselves to look poor

A girl must not raise herself to look poor, no matter what her condition is.

It's not just about material things, it's about spiritual and inner abundance.

A girl's face with a poor face, its inner is very poor and barren.

Whether a person is spiritually rich or poor, others can tell at a glance.

No one likes to be near a person who is spiritually barren, because this kind of shrunken spirit is contagious.

Kazuo Inamori said:

"True poverty is not the lack of a house or a car; it is not destitution, pennilessness, and lack of material things. It is the superficiality of the face, the emptiness of the eyes, the blankness of the mind, the high poverty of the mind, the extreme lack of spirituality, and the mind that blankly goes with the flow."

If a person wants to change his poor appearance, he has to deliberately practice strong thinking, develop a kingly temperament, and completely remove the poor aura from his body.

Stay away from hunger thinking

By hunger thinking I mean a person who is so hungry and afraid that he can't help but hoard food even though he is already full.

He refuses to let go of a piece of bread in his hand and can't free his hand to grab anything else. As a result, he will only have a few pieces of bread in his hand at the most, and nothing more valuable will come out of it.

Just like some people ask you how to get money as soon as they come up, all they think about is money, but they don't think about what value they can provide, what resources they have to exchange, and what problems they can help others solve?

Lack of money lack of fear, the money is too important people but can not earn money.

Look at what is like cutting leeks, hand clutching the money, not willing to pay for knowledge, but also want to learn from others, everything catty.

Noble people see this as if the appearance of hungry wolves are to be scared away.

So a person can be poor, but must not have a poor phase, poor phase to a large extent affects your wealth.

Quit the inferiority complex brought about by the family of origin

Some poorly raised girls, there is always a sense of inferiority, always feel that they are not good enough, living a humble and careful.

In the past, one of my colleagues, a small, ordinary-looking, average family conditions.

She is always very quiet in the company, silently do things, even ask others questions are also careful, other colleagues think she is very weak, low self-esteem, poor look is very obvious.

Because she is very low self-esteem, do not understand the place seldom ask others for advice, resulting in her work progress is very slow, other people often need to wait for her data out before the next step.

Over time, the leader was very unhappy with her performance because she was delaying the progress of the whole department.

To put it bluntly, a person with low self-esteem will not get a promotion even if there is one available to her.

Adler said this in Inferiority and Beyond:

"Low self-esteem can destroy you or make you. Transcend your low self-esteem and you will become your inner strong self!"

Since we cannot choose our origins, there is no need to feel inferior because of our family of origin.

It doesn't matter if you don't have a good birth, it doesn't matter if you don't have a good father, it doesn't matter if your family lives on the high slopes of the loess.

The key is that you have to understand that your birth can only determine the first 25 years of your life, and the rest of your life is created by yourself.

Go to an advanced environment and meet advanced people

People are the product of their environment; a good environment can mold people, and people can be molded by their environment.

Our perceptions and behaviors are usually influenced by our surroundings.

It is better to go to advanced environments if you can, because people there are extremely inclusive.

Good environments are not only rich in resources, but also circulate quality information, which is instilled into your head and makes you smart.

Whereas in backward environments, most people are uneducated and have no dreams or pursuits. These people are poor in all aspects of quality and ability not to mention that their minds are also very solidified.

A smart person should choose to enter an advanced environment and come into contact with good people.

Kazuo Inamori said:

"Get in touch with beautiful people more often and you'll be embarrassed to be sloppy, get in touch with motivated people more often and you'll be embarrassed to be lazy, get in touch with people who can make money more often and you'll realize that rich people work harder than you do."

A person if into the wrong environment, contact with backward people, your talent will not only be swallowed up, have a dream but also dare not go after, every day to muddle through, day after day, the poor phase are inspired.

Close to the vermilion is red, close to the ink is black, said the same thing.

Let's work together, away from the hunger thinking, quit the feeling of inferiority, brave to contact the wider world, live a confident, wonderful life!