"Every Encounter in Life Has a Reason"

A 22-year-old who has just married their first love, a 26-year-old who, after three heartbreaks, continues to seek love, a 35-year-old who has finally found their soulmate, a 27-year-old who has divorced and then focused on making money, remarries at 30, and lives a very happy life—these are just a few stories of love's journey.

Some people are naturally intriguing yet choose to remain single their entire lives. We might meet someone when we're in our twenties, and perhaps our love for that person is full of passion, a bit sweet and dreamy, profound yet superficial, eternal yet fleeting, sincere yet deceptive. Sometimes, the person you love may not love you back, and the one who loves you might not have feelings for that person.

If you like someone, pursue them. If you don't, reject them. Don't let seeing others' relationships or marriages disrupt your own rhythm of life. Meeting someone in your twenties is great, but if it doesn't feel right, embrace the possibility of love even after that age. You can still have a fulfilling relationship. Always believe you have enough time to meet the right person. When your love is big enough, you'll know how to accept and adjust to whatever comes your way in that love—even if it means not being able to be with that person every day.

I've heard a saying that some beautiful scenes are only meant to be admired, not possessed, and some people are meant to meet but not to be with forever. In this life, there will be someone you love but cannot have. Even if they can't be with you until the end, they become someone you'll never forget. Maybe one day, you'll remember the joy they once brought you and the times you spent together. In a casual comment, you'll recall them clearly; although you can't be together, you'll cherish those warm memories. Even if love continues to be trampled and you feel lost, if you're willing, you can keep going. But if the pain becomes too much to bear, let it go.

Though giving up might be hard, take good care of yourself first. Everything you’ve experienced over the past 20 years wasn't meant for you to end up in a situation that belittles yourself. It’s natural for parents to worry about their children's happiness and choices, but ultimately, your life is yours. No one can live it for you. Trust yourself and take responsibility for your decisions.

When faced with doubts about whether to stay or leave, remember that love should make you gentle and courageous, not just a means to settle or compromise. Admitting you no longer love someone is much harder than admitting your love for them. No one wants to be trapped in a relationship full of hidden feelings and suppressed thoughts.

If someone truly loves you, they will give their best to you. Time, attention, and care are more valuable than just words or gestures. Distinguish genuine love from superficial gestures. Your heart is a house that needs to be closed and warmed properly. Others will want to live in that house if you manage it well.

I remember a time when I realized I was living in an age where people choose uncertain loves without promises, ready to leave quietly. People long for something deep but seldom open their hearts fully. The city is full of fleeting relationships, and sadly, I was among them.

In this era, if you hope for love and life, you'll face trials to test your beliefs. If you hope for success, you'll encounter challenges to solve and step out of your comfort zone. If you hope for happiness, you'll face dangers and setbacks to understand the price of peace and meaningful moments.

In the end, the universe often doesn’t give us what we want but provides what we need. Accept everything with patience and calm. You'll find everything within your grasp because emotions are fleeting like waves, while peace is the open sea.

I realize now that we live in a time where people choose uncertain love and are ready to leave quietly. There’s a city where everyone longs for something profound but has never truly opened their hearts. It’s a time of fleeting, brief romances. It’s unfortunate that I’m part of that generation.

A friend of mine who has been single for four years is open and always smiling. Despite many suitors, she hasn’t found anyone suitable. She believes that quick and eager suitors are like instant noodles—quick but lacking depth. It’s not about rejecting people but about waiting for someone who genuinely fits.

Though choosing to be single has its own set of challenges and loneliness, it’s better than being with the wrong person and losing yourself. Sometimes, I think it's better to wait and keep searching until you find someone who truly deserves you and can share a deep, meaningful relationship.