Do you know? Some people have never been truly loved

Not everyone knows what love is like.

For some people, being cared for is unfamiliar, unsafe, and even disturbing.

They have been used to self-care, hiding emotions, and taking care of themselves since childhood. They have learned to read the air, avoid conflicts, and put themselves away before others frown. They are so good at understanding others that they forget that they also need to be understood.

You may think they are cold and difficult to approach.

But in fact, they just haven't learned to "trust".

Some people are not eager to be loved, but they have not been treated well for too long, so that every time they approach gently, they think the other party is "wrong".

You give him a hug, and he subconsciously takes a half step back.

You ask him: "Are you okay?" He subconsciously answers: "No, really."

In fact, it's not okay, he is afraid that you will feel troubled and afraid that you will leave.

Do you know? Some people grew up in "no one really approaches".

So they think "I am fine" is the minimum standard for a person's existence.

It's not that they don't need love, but they have long learned that if you don't expect, you won't be disappointed.

But everyone in this world should have the opportunity to experience the feeling of being treated gently.

Not in exchange, not in return, but because you deserve it.

Maybe you are the one who always says "I'm fine".

But have you ever thought that someone should ask you "How are you doing?" and really want to hear your answer.

🧷 Some people have been protecting themselves all their lives and have never been allowed to put down their armor.

📩 If you are one of them, I hope you know: you don't need to be alone anymore.

I hope you are not always waiting for an uncertain person to understand you, but one day, you start to speak for yourself.