feminism
At its core, feminism is the simple conviction that women are equal to men in every regard, and should be treated as such.
The Goddess Myth
My nine-year-old thinks I walk on water. In her eyes, I am the epitome of the perfect mother. In contrast, my 16- and 18-year-old each cannot wait to escape what they often perceive to be my totalitarian regime. Balancing out such sharply contrasting views, my 24-year-old admits that, while there have been times that my mothering techniques might be questionable, at best, he can no longer deny that he didn’t make things any easier for either one of us. Today, as an adult who can reflect on the past with less biased views, my first-born child thinks I am a “good enough” mother. Personally, there are days when I have to strongly question my own methods, just as there are days – well, fleeting moments, anyway – where I think I should win the “Best Mom Ever” award. When measured against societal standards for mothers, though, I fall short. Some might even consider me a bad mother. I used to care what the outside world thought of me, and I tried, in vain, to adjust myself to better meet societal expectations. When I did, one of two things would happen: either I would continue to fall short in some (insignificant, in my mind) way, or, more often, I’d finally meet those ridiculous expectations, and then society would change them! Eventually, I had to do some real soul searching, and I had to honestly ask myself whether I was truly “good enough” to be a mother to my children. To this day, I still have moments when I am left questioning my own adequacy at mothering. Often, the only thing I can do is throw my hands up and say, “good enough.” Heck, we may as well just face it, perfection will always remain just out of reach. We mothers must stop reaching for something that we will never be able to grasp; that we were never meant to grasp. In the race to become the mythical perfect mother, we place ourselves in an unfair and burdensome position, where in the end, we are sure to be judged as failures – whether by those around us, or even worse, by ourselves. It is time that mothers unite against unrealistic parenting expectations and say, “No, thanks. I’ll settle for good enough.”
By Melissa Shortt3 years ago in Viva
Man Attacked Hilda Baci For Wearing Bikini; Claims Guinness Book Should Remove Her For Bathing Suit
Wednesday, 7 June 2023 By: TB Obwoge I was posting the morning news links for Nigeria, when scrolling Facebook I saw this man's post. I thought he was initially joking, as he claimed the chef and newest Guinness Book of World Records holder was naked. In the photos you can clearly see she's not nude in any of the photos.
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
Ghana's Minister of Gender Silent AGAIN as More Women Murdered by Lovers 1 High schooler Another Mother & Her Child
Friday, 1 June 2023 By: TB Obwoge Heard in Ghana, "If your husband doesn't beat you he doesn't love you!" Posted onto social media by a Ghanian woman, "If your man doesn't beat you, you are a side chick!" Said to me in Tumu, Ghana, "If your husband doesn't beat you, he no longer loves you!"
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
THINGS THAT ATTRACT WOMEN TO MEN
Things That Attract Women To Men Attraction is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that can vary greatly from person to person. While it's important to note that individual preferences and priorities differ, there are certain qualities and traits that are commonly associated with attracting women. Here are some of the factors that often contribute to attraction:
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
Feminism
Feminism, a powerful movement advocating for gender equality, has transformed societies around the world. Rooted in the belief that women should have equal rights, opportunities, and recognition, feminism has challenged patriarchal norms, shattered glass ceilings, and fostered a more inclusive and equitable world. This article delves into the multifaceted concept of feminism, its historical context, key principles, and the ongoing struggle for gender equality. From its early beginnings to its modern iterations, feminism has made significant strides in reshaping societies and empowering women to break free from societal constraints.
By Shamily Elangovan3 years ago in Viva
DEPRESSION AS A WOMAN
The greatest strength of a woman lies in her ability to face the hardest tasks. Many are yet to properly define a woman because a woman is not just a human but can become a warrior, a keeper, a fighter, a mother, a sister, a friend and even sometimes an enemy. Greatest accolades to our mothers who have stood the test of time for their own. HERE IS A SHORT STORY ON WHAT A WOMAN CAN DO I was in high school, I had just gotten my first period and i never realized it, everyone in school kept staring at me and making terrible faces, it was a monday so i felt that just maybe everyone was pissed about the new week. ignorantly i kept walking towards class not until so many girls surrounded me and aided me to get to the restroom, And then i saw Tasha the schools bully and one of the fiercest ladies in school running towards me with some tampons and sanitary napkins asking me which one i'd prefer. That was when i realized that I had probably gotten my first period. very shy with my head bowed, I took the sanitary napkins and got changed. By the time i came out, there was a dress available for me to change into. I felt embarrassed but happy at the same time that this ladies stood by me despite so many difference amongst us. I felt motivated and happy that i was a woman. WHEN WOMEN STAND BY EACH OTHER, THE WORLD BECOMES A BETTER PLACE FOR ALL.
By Agwaraonye Veronica 3 years ago in Viva
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers In today's polarized and divided political landscape, it seems that Americans struggle to find common ground on almost any issue. Whether it's healthcare, gun control, climate change, or immigration, discussions quickly devolve into heated arguments and entrenched positions. The question arises: why is it so difficult for Americans to agree on anything? Interestingly, philosophy, with its rich tradition of grappling with complex questions of human nature and society, offers some insights into this phenomenon.
By News Bucks3 years ago in Viva
Understanding Love Languages
Love is a beautiful language that connects souls, but did you know that each person has their own unique way of feeling loved and appreciated? In this article, we will explore the concept of love languages and how understanding them can enhance your relationship. Imagine being able to speak your partner's heart and make them feel truly cherished. Get ready to embark on a journey of discovery and learn how to express love in a language that resonates deeply with your partner.
By OJO OREOFE3 years ago in Viva
Women & Girls Under Attack in Ghana: Myself & Another Black American Reported Sexual Assault & Domestic Violence
Friday, 19 May 2023 By: TB Obwoge I've written about going to the police for help in filing a report when one John Henaku stole my identity. He tried to create an account with me, I thought he was helping me, he however created the account with his email and password.
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
How To Flirt As A Single Woman
This article is going to be teaching you how to be more approachable and how to flirt with men with guys without appearing needy that's the key word, without appearing needy or without looking desperate. This is such an important topic and I'm so excited to talk about it and what I'm gonna talk about today are not things that everyone talks about I discovered that a lot of single women don't know how to be more approachable. How to put themselves out here and one of the reasons why it's difficult for them from their late 20s is because some of them have spent so much of their time in their career because some of them are so accomplished so they are not as approachable. Yeah, they look too serious for life and they have their finances together they are driving their cars they're wearing designer perfumes they have their six-inch heels. Some men shy away from approaching such women because they can look intimidating, they can look No Nonsense. I'm gonna tell you tricks and things you can do to put yourself out here and ways you can flirt like a lady in a ladylike way without appearing needy and without looking desperate.
By OJO OREOFE3 years ago in Viva
