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Family life from the feminist perspective; can women have it all? Can anyone?
The Goddess Myth
My nine-year-old thinks I walk on water. In her eyes, I am the epitome of the perfect mother. In contrast, my 16- and 18-year-old each cannot wait to escape what they often perceive to be my totalitarian regime. Balancing out such sharply contrasting views, my 24-year-old admits that, while there have been times that my mothering techniques might be questionable, at best, he can no longer deny that he didn’t make things any easier for either one of us. Today, as an adult who can reflect on the past with less biased views, my first-born child thinks I am a “good enough” mother. Personally, there are days when I have to strongly question my own methods, just as there are days – well, fleeting moments, anyway – where I think I should win the “Best Mom Ever” award. When measured against societal standards for mothers, though, I fall short. Some might even consider me a bad mother. I used to care what the outside world thought of me, and I tried, in vain, to adjust myself to better meet societal expectations. When I did, one of two things would happen: either I would continue to fall short in some (insignificant, in my mind) way, or, more often, I’d finally meet those ridiculous expectations, and then society would change them! Eventually, I had to do some real soul searching, and I had to honestly ask myself whether I was truly “good enough” to be a mother to my children. To this day, I still have moments when I am left questioning my own adequacy at mothering. Often, the only thing I can do is throw my hands up and say, “good enough.” Heck, we may as well just face it, perfection will always remain just out of reach. We mothers must stop reaching for something that we will never be able to grasp; that we were never meant to grasp. In the race to become the mythical perfect mother, we place ourselves in an unfair and burdensome position, where in the end, we are sure to be judged as failures – whether by those around us, or even worse, by ourselves. It is time that mothers unite against unrealistic parenting expectations and say, “No, thanks. I’ll settle for good enough.”
By Melissa Shortt3 years ago in Viva
10 Surprising Benefits of Regular Exercise You Never Knew
Regular exercise has long been recognized as a cornerstone of a healthy lifestyle. It helps us maintain a healthy weight, build strong muscles, and boost cardiovascular health. However, beyond these well-known benefits, there are numerous lesser-known advantages that exercise can provide. In this article, we will explore ten surprising benefits of regular exercise backed by scientific research and delve into the reasons why you should make physical activity a priority in your life.
By Ethan stone3 years ago in Viva
Ghana's Minister of Gender Silent AGAIN as More Women Murdered by Lovers 1 High schooler Another Mother & Her Child
Friday, 1 June 2023 By: TB Obwoge Heard in Ghana, "If your husband doesn't beat you he doesn't love you!" Posted onto social media by a Ghanian woman, "If your man doesn't beat you, you are a side chick!" Said to me in Tumu, Ghana, "If your husband doesn't beat you, he no longer loves you!"
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
"Beyond the Veil: A Journey into the Unknown"
Once upon a time, in a small town nestled in the heart of a dense forest, lived a young and curious adventurer named Emma. The townsfolk whispered tales of a mystical veil that concealed a world of wonders and mysteries beyond. Intrigued by the stories, Emma embarked on a daring quest to unravel the secrets hidden beyond the veil.
By neho davidov3 years ago in Viva
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers In today's polarized and divided political landscape, it seems that Americans struggle to find common ground on almost any issue. Whether it's healthcare, gun control, climate change, or immigration, discussions quickly devolve into heated arguments and entrenched positions. The question arises: why is it so difficult for Americans to agree on anything? Interestingly, philosophy, with its rich tradition of grappling with complex questions of human nature and society, offers some insights into this phenomenon.
By News Bucks3 years ago in Viva
Understanding Love Languages
Love is a beautiful language that connects souls, but did you know that each person has their own unique way of feeling loved and appreciated? In this article, we will explore the concept of love languages and how understanding them can enhance your relationship. Imagine being able to speak your partner's heart and make them feel truly cherished. Get ready to embark on a journey of discovery and learn how to express love in a language that resonates deeply with your partner.
By OJO OREOFE3 years ago in Viva
Pregnancy Week By Week
Pregnancy is an extraordinary time in a woman's life, filled with anticipation, joy, and a whirlwind of changes. From the moment of conception to the birth of a beautiful baby, the nine-month journey is a remarkable process that unfolds week by week. In this article, we will delve into the incredible transformation that occurs in a woman's body during each stage of pregnancy.
By OJO OREOFE3 years ago in Viva
All in Love
Every one of us has a calling. We shouldn't rationalize. No, we should set the model for others by the manner by which we talk as well as the manner by which we get things done. That is genuinely self-evident. However, Paul helps Timothy and us by going somewhat further: we should show love. 12Teach adherents with your life: by word, by disposition, by affection...
By SANJOY DAS3 years ago in Viva
Celebrating the Unconditional Love: Mother's Day
Mother's Day is a cherished occasion dedicated to honoring the incredible women who have shaped our lives with their love, care, and sacrifices. Celebrated annually on the second Sunday of May, this special day provides us with an opportunity to express our gratitude and appreciation for the unwavering support and selflessness of mothers around the world. From heartfelt gestures to thoughtful gifts, Mother's Day celebrates the immeasurable impact that mothers have on our lives and serves as a reminder of their unconditional love.
By Athletic Junkys3 years ago in Viva
Golden Gate Bridge
The Golden Gate Bridge is one of the most iconic landmarks in the United States, and is considered by many to be one of the engineering wonders of the world. Spanning the Golden Gate Strait, the bridge connects the city of San Francisco to Marin County, and has become an internationally recognized symbol of the San Francisco Bay Area.
By Nouman Yousaf3 years ago in Viva
