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What it's like: IUCD (Contraceptive Device)
If you're thinking of getting IUCD (a copper contraceptive device) or soon to be your first time getting it, as someone with an IUCD, I say don't be afraid. We all been there, google for images or even watches videos on how it is inserted. But, watching these makes us, even I, more afraid to get one. The pain is what causes us to step back and re-think a thousand time. Definition of pain differs from one another, some people feel more pain and some people don't. We all experience pain differently.
By Cherii C.6 years ago in Viva
"Just Relax" Doesn't Work
I've gone to the doctors many a times gotten enough tests to not want to go to the doctors anymore. About a year ago I was officially diagnosed with PCOS. Don't get me wrong it was nice to finally know what was going on with my body and know somewhat what I have to do to control it but there isn't an official manual on how to navigate it all.
By Renee Vasquez6 years ago in Viva
I Know Why They Call You a "Hoe"
I KNOW. I know what it is like to be molested. I know how it feels to be violated by a family member and a friend of the family. I know what it is like to have to keep the secret out of fear that you will get in trouble or hurt if you tell. I know what it is like to be molested by someone of the same sex, and in turn become confused about your own sexuality. I know what it is like to think that you were just ‘playing a game’ when in fact someone was stealing your innocence. I know how it feels to be so ashamed that you cannot even tell your closest friends, because you do not want them to look at you or your family differently. I know what it is like to feel as if you are going to throw up when someone touches you in the same way that an abuser touched you, even if that abuse happened 30 years ago.
By Aly Oh6 years ago in Viva
7 Benefits of the menstrual cup
If you have not tried it yet, or maybe have not heard of the benefits of the menstrual cup, this post interests you. Whoever uses it, knows it's a change for the better in female life. The period is something that we have to live with and the menstrual cup makes it easier, hygienic and comfortable.
By Astarothkuu6 years ago in Viva
Catcalling Is NOT a Compliment
For most, the ideology that catcalling is not flattery of any sort, is pretty clear. But it’s for those who don’t see catcalling as problematic that we must shine light to such a curable annoyance. Now, catcalling can be binary, but it’s an alarming amount of men that don’t see any harm in objectifying women. It is more annoying than anything else being one step away from physical harrasment,yet, guys have been getting a bit more creative during Covid-19. It took a pandemic to finally bring relief to Westernized women. Yes!, finally, we can protect ourselves not only from germs, but predators as well. The masks that are tirelessly stressed and emphasized by the FdA and the CDC are now a requirement for any social activity. They cover roughly 50% of face, aren't very cute nor comfortable but very practical. Now, I wear sunglasses on the norm so that typically - yea you get the gist. 100% face-covered. Ladies, our faces are literally hidden from the outside world. Shut out. Blinders. Yet, somehow, an ultra pesty, persistent prowling man will still manage to holla'. It is beyond me. A study from the Stop Street Harassment organization, showed that 99% of women have experienced some form of street harassment.
By Cyn Kitt6 years ago in Viva
Why Women Should Switch To Organic Menstrual Hygiene?
No, today is not International Menstrual Hygiene Day. Then why am I talking about menstrual hygiene? Because our menstruation cycle doesn't visit us once or twice a year but sticks with us 24-7, like that annoying high school friend. This makes it an essential topic that needs constant attention. From our dietary habits to our stress levels, everything about us affects our cycle, even the things we use for our hygiene down there.
By Ahana Says!6 years ago in Viva
FEMININITY
My favourite movie is memoirs of a geisha because my idea of transitioning into womanhood is being taught by older women about how to carry ourselves in different settings. From social settings, to intimate friendships, to romantic relationships, to career, marriage and into motherhood. There is a way that we can be taught how to activate our feminine sides as women to enable us to be effective and successful in the different areas of our lives. In this post I’ll first talk about the movie ‘Memoirs of a Geisha’ to illustrate the journey into womanhood.
By Christine 6 years ago in Viva
We Don't Live To Serve You
I seriously question some of the people I follow on Facebook, specifically the MEN. The things they post and repost sometimes baffle me. Of course, people can be trash on all social media platforms, but by far, nothing triggers my fight or flight more than some of the outlandish things I see on my Facebook feed.
By KJ6 years ago in Viva
The Third Date... #MeToo
My First Kiss Two weeks before High School Graduation I finally got the courage to talk to the first guy I ever felt feelings for. I was warned by friends that I should be careful. I said I would take it slow and I did take it slow. After High School Graduation we discussed our first date. During this time I lived thirty minutes away from him and neither of us had our licenses but we were both 18. We were just late bloomers when it came to getting a license. For the first date we agreed on a place near his house so met each other there at the place.
By Jan Jas6 years ago in Viva
7 Strategies for Fighting Doubts About Your Self-Worth As A Woman
Women are strong, intelligent, confident people. But even the most capable and successful females sometimes struggle with maintaining these characteristics in public and doubt their self-worth and appearance at times. Since you are unlikely to be the exception to this phenomenon, it is vital to have strategies to deal with your doubts so you can quickly quell the beast when you have them. Consider this list of ten strategies to employ in these situations.
By Sasha McGregor6 years ago in Viva
Gathering the Girls : How to Create a Women's Circle
Leaving the bookshop in an early evening dusk I had a sense of calm and determination. The last hour had consisted of belly laughs, snacks, discovery, tears, sharing, and understanding. I had held space with six other women, who over the last couple of months had grown from good acquaintances to dear friends, thanks to these hours of intention we had been spending together. I left with the phone number of a new member, a plan next weekend to check out an art exhibit with another member, and excitement for our next Circle together.
By Swamp Queen6 years ago in Viva
Welcome to Madeline
Well, hello and welcome to Madeline’s Life Take 2. I decided to do a minor introduction as I think it would be fitting for some of you to get an idea about the person who will be writing the stories, the life lessons and the sometimes wine fuelled content.
By Madeline Stocks6 years ago in Viva