How to talk like a femme fatal

As a woman being a femme fatale is the most powerful thing that you can become. Many people think that you need a certain look to become this powerful although physical Beauty has very little to do with it. Once you master the art of conversation then there is no stopping you. First off, you want to talk slower. talking slower and with more intent shows confidence and an internalized sureness of yourself. Talking slower will prevent you from stuttering And will catch people's attention. This is because in our society everyone prioritizes speed. When it comes to talking with others you aren't looking for Speed you are looking for Meaningful words. you want to leave the other person thinking about what you said even hours, days, months after the conversation. the more you occupy someone's mind oh, the more power you hold. try keeping your voice at the same pitch. This does not mean talking in a monotone Style but instead learning to Convey powerful emotions without significantly lowering or raising your voice. A good skill to learn is to change your voice depending on the person and what you want from them. This will not work on people that you interact with daily. They know your voice and going back and forth from a very high-pitched soft feminine voice, to a deeper, more seductive voice will cause confusion. Taking breaks when answering questions is another way to seem smarter, Charismatic, confident, and captivating. Avoid vulgar language and give off an innocent personality almost child-like to compensate for how sexy you are. try to stick in their brain. You want them to not stop thinking about you. You can do this either by connecting with them emotionally, leaving them second guessing their own thoughts, having them wondering what you meant especially when sending mixed signals, and getting them to tell you something personal. THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU PRY OR EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATE THEM. Don’t take advantage of the person if you are able to really get through to them but instead just leave them wanting more. More of your voice, your thoughts, your company. Use kindness and seduction as your main tools but let it be known that you are not a force to be reckoned with. You cannot let people talk over you, ignore you, or disrespect you. The most important part when standing your ground as a femme fatale is to think logically and clear. Make sure to examine the situation. Real interactions I have had:

Coworker: “you, yeah you, get over here.”

Me: “I have a name and you know it. You can either refer to me as that or not refer to me at all.”

The most important thing is the tone and body language I used when saying this . I kept my voice soft and more on the quiet side while also maintaining intense eye contact while following it up with a non- judgmental smile.

Use words that are kind and well thought out

“ I need you to respect my boundaries just as I respect yours” is another good example.

Lastly the absolute most powerful situation you can be in is if said person that you are trying to seduce is apologizing. This gives you the opportunity to swoop in and react differently than other people. Instead of pulling an “ I told you so” or a “ha” moment, be surprisingly understanding, calm, appreciative, and supportive. You can absolutely prioritize yourself without bringing others down and being sweet to others especially when they are at a weak point is important. You are not trying to blackmail the person into acting how you want them too, but instead encourage it. You can also praise behaviors that you like in order for the person to subconsciously do them more. "I really like how you facetime me, it's cute” even if you only facetimed twice. Saying that will make them want to do it more. A true femme fatal doesn’t beg for anything but instead just gets it. Try talking more like:

“ I enjoyed our kiss”

“You text me often, its cute, I like it”

“ I noticed that you get flustered when I'm around you”

“I enjoy your company”

“ want you”

And less like

“ Why did you kiss me yesterday but not today”

“You never text me”

“I need you”

Make it known that you do not need anything ever from anyone but you do appreciate the things that people do. Being a femme fatal is a mindset more than anything. It’s being so confident that others love you just as much as you love yourself. Seduction is the only thing as a female that you have that cannot be taken away so use it to your advantage.