You put off having a baby for 4 years, and borrowed the school district room for my grandson

"Ordinary World" said: "Relationships are often the most vulgar, try to get each other's light, roll your eyes if you can't get the light, and even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives."

Why is it that young people nowadays don't like Chinese New Year more and more, that is, there are some relatives who are so annoying that they have no sense of proportion, especially those who have no sense of proportion. If you compromise once, he will dare to take a step unscrupulously.

Zhang Chen was newly married this year. The old man in his family was very farsighted and bought a school district room directly. With dual school districts, there is no need to worry from elementary school to middle school.

But it is also very expensive. The family has used most of their savings, and even the level of the wedding has been compressed. Of course, this was discussed with the bride, and the bride is also honest, saying that those fake faces are not needed.

The two newly married Yan Er have not been sweet for a few days, and trouble came to her door. It was Zhang Chen's uncle and cousin who ran to Zhang Chen's small house without saying hello, saying that they would move his five-year-old grandson's household registration to Zhang Chen's marriage room.

It is said that the child is about to go to school, and the teaching quality of the local village primary school is not good, so he needs to borrow Zhang Chen's degree to go to school.

Everyone knows that the quality of teaching in the village primary school is not good, so the family made a lot of money, not only buying a marriage house but also solving the school district. The elderly in the family also hope that their grandchildren can have a good learning environment and become better and better.

Hearing the uncle's request, Zhang Chen was displeased. But thinking about the elderly may be thinking of the problem simply, and it will be clear if you explain it yourself.

Zhang Chen patiently said to his uncle: "It's true that we bought a double-degree-bound house, but when we bought the house, the salesperson specifically explained that there is a policy that only one child can finish junior high school or transfer halfway, and the other child can be in the house. Use this school district. Except for twins or second births."

The uncle said, I don't understand what you mean, so just say it, can I let my eldest grandson keep his household registration here and go to a key school.

The uncle didn't understand, but the cousin next to him did. But what he said made Zhang Chen unexpected: "Then you can have children two years later, and now there are people who want to have children just married."

Zhang Chen is 27 years old this year. If he lends his degree to his 5-year-old nephew, he will have to wait more than a year for his nephew to go to primary school and finish primary and junior high school in 9 years, a total of almost 11 years.

In order to ensure that my children can use this school district, then I have to be four years later to have children. At that time, Zhang Chen was 31 years old.

Zhang Chenqiang suppressed his anger and said to his cousin, your home is more than ten kilometers away from my home, and it would take more than half an hour to travel without traffic jams. There is a section of the road that has accumulated water all the year round. If it rains, it is good that you can go to the school within an hour. So far, the child also suffers.

Before waiting for the cousin to speak, the uncle continued: "There are so many rainy days. If you really love your nephew, let him live at your house and walk to school in less than 10 minutes."

As soon as these words came out, Zhang Chen took a deep breath. So he refused, saying that he was going to have a child this year, and he really couldn't help this.

Seeing that his cousin's face changed, he said, "You can't bear to watch, does your nephew go to such a poor elementary school?"

Zhang Chen's attitude was firm, he said something, and finally sent the old and young out of the door, and he breathed a sigh of relief.

The next day, Zhang Chen's parents called to ask about the matter. Zhang Chen thought that the uncle's family must have put pressure on his parents.

Zhang Chen said bluntly: "If I were forced to give up my degree to someone else, I would have children in ten years. Whether you want to have a grandson next year or a grandson in ten years, decide for yourself."

Later, it was over. But every time the uncle's family saw Zhang Chen's face, they seemed to owe them millions.

But Zhang Chen didn't care anymore. Half a year later, Zhang Chen's wife became pregnant. The days when wives and children will be hot on the kang will soon be over. Who cares about relatives who don’t meet twice this year and don’t know the boundaries?

In fact, according to the requirements of many regions, not only can children go to school by moving their hukou, but both parents and children need to be in the same hukou. Also, there are requirements for the length of residence.

The fear is that Zhang Chen's uncle's family is planning step by step, constantly gaining ground.

We can't choose where we come from, nor can we choose what kind of relatives we have around us, but we can decide what kind of life we ​​want and what kind of road we want to take.

I really don't understand why someone would cause trouble to others, doing this for granted and justified.

Husbands and wives must have a certain sense of boundaries and proportions in order to live a good life, not to mention relatives who cannot be beaten by eight poles?

Now most people live their lives behind closed doors. It is okay for relatives to help each other, but it is also necessary to see if they walk around often and ask for help.

For example, in "The Big River", the marriage between Song Yunhui and Cheng Kaiyan, from the initial you-nong-me-nong to a bleak end, not only related to themselves, but also to Cheng Kaiyan's family's relatives who have no bottom line to intervene in their marriage. pusher.

In a good marriage, relatives do not cross the line. There is room for relatives to meet.

Everyone is the protagonist in their own life, so they should take the responsibility they should take. Instead of passing this responsibility for granted to others, just sit back and enjoy it.