Why are you unhappy? The answer is simple

1. your happiness, all need money to maintain, so you are suffering.

2. men do not choose you because you love him very much, but you are valuable, beautiful, emotionally stable, weighing the pros and cons before choosing you, love him useless, love each other is useful.

3. "Live" has this passage: "Never believe that suffering is worth it. Suffering is suffering, suffering will not bring success. Suffering is not worth pursuing. Hone your will because suffering cannot be avoided."

4. suffering is suffering, crowned with beautiful adjectives can not change its bad nature, why thank the suffering, you have to thank, is the suffering from the suffering through themselves.

5. "As long as a person really appreciates the despair in ordinary suffering, he will understand how pompous are all the words that glorify suffering, and how pretentious are all the gestures that show off suffering." -- Zhou Guoping

6. Failure is never about having nothing, but about tossing and turning late at night in the same bed with your own laziness, weakness, broken vows, and wasted talents, and having trouble sleeping. -- Joan Didion, The Year of Ideas

7. Sunrise does not necessarily mean light, and the sun is no more than a morning star; it is only when we wake up that the true dawn breaks. -- Thoreau, "Walden Lake

8. how to spend this muzzle period, you will spend your life.

9. change is a lonely carnival, except for a ground of soot and fragmented self, you get nothing.

10. people outside the wall waiting anxiously at the door, the man of his choice with the colorful clouds in the end when to come ah; the same anxious people in the wall looking at the door that keeps opening and closing, regretting why they did not think clearly to push the world away.

11. Desire is like clothes, one by one to get cloaked, one by one also did not become armor, one by one by time stripped raw pain ......

12. cheap hedonism, just need a cell phone.

13. Fear is the most useless thing that will only make people lose their armor.

14. an ordinary working-class children if you want to start a business, it is not from zero, from the negative start.

15. Hugo said in "Les Miserables": "Poverty makes men scribble, hunger makes women degenerate, darkness makes children weak. When public opinion is silent about bullying, honest people will draw their swords and kill."

16. Some people are hated for no reason; they are mediocre, untalented, and bumbling, so your excellence, your talent, your goodness and happiness are all original sins. -- Keigo Higashino, "Malice

17. I used to hear that growing up is the process of removing the edges. Now I realize that growing up is the process of forming angles. You will know more and more what you need and what you don't want, what is precious and what is optional. The process of growing up is really about learning to discover what is important to you in the world and defending it with action.

18. Once the heart stops, the person instantly becomes an object, there is no mind no soul nothing, disappearing into smoke in the world, from then on the world has nothing to do with you.

19. every point of your understanding of the human world, every point of openness to love to love to love, are replaced with disappointment. -- Fu Seoul

20. Do not pursue unconditional love. There is no money but there are other things such as good looks, youth, responsibility can also be loved. But if ugly, poor and weak, it is actually unreasonable to ask others to love you.

Similarly, you do not need to ask yourself to love others unconditionally, because you can not do it.

By not pursuing unconditional love, your mind will become more peaceful and you will put more attention on enhancing your own value.