What suits you is the best

Some people look at the surface of the bright, but behind the scenes hidden how much pain; and some people look ordinary, but the ordinary reveals happiness.

To say who has a good life, it can be said that each has its good, no one's life is as smooth as it should be, and all have their glory and are not easy.

How difficult life is, as long as you try to get through it will become better, but still can not help but envy others who easily have everything they want.

However, when you envy others, they may also be envying you. Those who are studying envy the part-time workers who can spend their money freely, and those who are working envy the ones who are studying and can do themselves without any worries ......

The first thing you need to do is to look up to other people's lives, rather than live your own life, survive the hardships of the moment and achieve a better you.

1、Don't look up to other people's happiness

The most important thing is to look at the same object from different angles.

Different angles of the same object will have different results, not to mention a person looking at another person, we can often see what others allow us to see, but in the end how only the person knows best.

I have a classmate, after graduating from college to do work related to the financial industry, from the circle of friends will feel that her life is very colorful, work more money, fewer things, go out on vacation, I have to admit, I can't help but look at myself envious, so later in a chat, I couldn't help but show their envy.

And she said to me with a bitter smile.

"The friends I sent are all beautified, which is so happy to see the surface, those who want to spit things which dare to say to the circle of friends, ah, a little attention will be known by the boss, may be targeted, can only try to send those moments that look happy, so that they also look a little smoother.

Everyone's life is not as good as it should be, each trying to hide, pretending to live a good life, but inside is good or bad, only you know.

After listening, I think it is reasonable, the surface of the scenery, the heartache inside, life abounds.

Looked very well, but spreading out to see each of them is not easy.

The rich are not necessarily happier than the poor, and the poor are not necessarily more painful than the rich.

Instead of spending time looking up to other people's happiness, why not grab the happiness in front of you and live your own life?

2、Don't cling to what you can't get

South wall, hit countless times, the pain countless times, it is time to wake up.

Sometimes, knowing that it is wrong, but also bent on the line, will only make their own mistakes on the wrong.

You think that the wall is blocking you, but I do not know that the road is your own, because of excessive obsession, do not know how to adapt and stop at this.

A person no longer clings to what you can't get, learn to let go and let go of yourself.

The reason why abusive relationships in novels happen mostly from a person's obsession, thinking that as long as it is what they want is their own, regardless of whether it is appropriate or not, and whether continuing will cause more misfortune, bent on doing what they want to do, regardless of the consequences.

This is placed in the novel and can still have a happy ending, all thanks to the main character's support.

But if it happens in reality, it will probably create a lot of tragedy.

Some people or things, not just rely on the success of efforts, in the wrong path and then efforts are wasted, excessive obsession is only in the forced, will add a lot of unexpected troubles.

People live in the world, forcing is better than putting down, letting nature take its course, and living each day, embracing their happiness.

3, people live, to wear shoes that fit

Mo Yan said, "Others see the shoes, they feel the feet, do not covet the expensive shoes and condemn their feet."

Expensive is not necessarily good, expensive is not necessarily suitable for their own, only the right foot, comfortable is the best.

Other people's life is good, but it is not necessarily suitable for you.

Excessive envy of others will only make you tired of living, for those things that are false and exhausted, until overwhelmed.

Some people go into debt to buy designer bags, but buy the bag, but the wallet, no money to eat can only chew bread, carry a bag to prevent not scratching, every day around the bag, should be bought to use the bag, in turn, became her master.

The fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you'll be able to get a good deal on your own.

The person lives a life, fame, and fortune like a fleeting cloud of smoke, there is time to fight for what does not belong to them, rather than learn to enjoy the moment, and grasp the happiness that belongs to them.