The greatest evil of human nature is to dislike others

Higashino Keigo once said:

"The greatest evil of human nature is to dislike others. You never know how much malice those who seem close to you in life can harbor behind your back."

We will meet a lot of people in our life, some people become lifelong friends, some people become a passer-by of life.

The relationship between people is never invariable. There are always people who want you to live well, but if you live too well, it will lead to jealousy and comparison, and finally break up.

As Confucius said: not lack, but inequality.

Human nature is like a scale, struggling in the balance between interests and emotions best able to see the truth, best able to see good and bad.

The famous Japanese writer Higashino Keigo once wrote such a story in his novel Malice:

Bestselling novelist Hiko Bonhiko is murdered in his home the night before he leaves the country, by his erstwhile friend Osamu Noguchi

Noguchi repair confessed to his crimes, but did not mention the reason for killing friends.

This can not help but let a person doubt, after all what deep hatred let Wild noguchi repair to his good friend pain next killer, the result is in the police he Gongyi Lang's in-depth investigation, the truth of the case gradually surfaced.

Two people in school, Hiko Bonhiko integrity, not only did not do any sorry Noguchi Fix things, but also when he was bullied to help him.

After graduation, Nonoguchi repair career no development, and Hiko Bonhiko in writing this road is a little famous, he introduced the press to Nonoguchi repair to help him achieve the writer's dream.

So why did Osamu Noguchi do this to his best friend? To which he replied, I don't like him anymore.

And the reason why he has such an idea is actually the jealousy in human nature.

When Kao Banghiko shone in the literary world, Noguchi Was unfortunately diagnosed with illness.

The huge gap between the two people makes him out of balance, and jealousy blinds his eyes, causing him to commit an irreversible mistake.

But these stories aren't just in books, and sometimes real life can be just as scary as fiction.

In early July, a shocking incident took place in Henan Province. A girl with 601 marks in the national College Entrance exam was killed by none other than her uncle from the same village and family name.

The uncle was disabled, had no family, no children, and the family's economic situation was poor. According to the girl's parents, the man had no trouble with the family.

The murder of the girl was done only because she was jealous of her and her family because of her good grades.

As Higashino Keigo said, the greatest evil of human nature, is not to see others good.

The most terrible thing in life is not the fair competition of opponents, but the backstabbing of people around you.

There will always be those who, as soon as their eyes are red, their hearts are black, and will try every means to get you into trouble.

But do not know, the more do not see others good, their own cross is not good, jealous too much, will eventually harm yourself.

Life in the world, see others more good, a little less their own evil, can always see a light belonging to their own.

I like the movie "Good Will Hunting" very much. The protagonist in the movie has an amazing talent for mathematics. He should have a better future, but he chooses to work in the lowest level with his friends and lead a very dull life.

He never thought of leaving because he could not bear to let go of his friends, but his friends did not want him to waste his talent and hoped that he could live a better life, instead of living with them forever at the bottom.

"Every time I knock on the door, I hope you are gone, no goodbye, nothing, you go away, I don't know much, but I do know."

This is the most sincere blessing from his friends, willing to applaud for his success.

Life, no one is an island, only know how to applaud for others, sincere applause for the success of others, is really mature.

And those who are not strong enough, narrow-minded, jealous and jealous of others, are destined not to have real friends, and to grow up.

Mr. Zhou Guoping said:

"Jealousy is human nature. It is cultivation not to be disgraceful or even vengeful because of jealousy."

We are not saints. We all have passions and desires. We can't really suppress nature, but we can use it to fulfill ourselves.

In this era of hurry, learn to control their jealousy, turn it into our motivation, is the real maturity, is the real strong.