Ten life choices you will regret in ten years

"If only..." these two words are paired together, which is the saddest sentence in the vocabulary created by human beings. Here are ten options that ultimately lead to this regret and how to avoid them:

1. Wearing a mask makes a deep impression on others- If the face you always show the world is a mask, one day there will be nothing under it. Because when you spend too much time focusing on what others think of you, or what others want of you, you will eventually forget who you are. So don't be afraid of others' judgment; You know who you are, which is true to you. You don't have to impress and motivate people perfectly. Let them be impressed by how you deal with your imperfections.

2. Let others create dreams for you- The biggest challenge in life is to find out who you are; The second greatest thing is to be happy with what you find. A large part of it is your determination to stick to your own goals and dreams. Do you have anyone who disagrees with you? OK. This means that you stand in your own position and go your own way. Sometimes you will do what others think is crazy, but when you seize your time excitedly, you will know that you are doing the right thing. Read the 4-hour work week.

3. Maintain negative interpersonal relationships- Don't let someone with a bad attitude give it to you. Don't let them find you. If you don't take them to the gun, they can't pull the trigger. When you remember that keeping negative people in the company is a choice, not an obligation, you are free to keep the company sympathetic rather than angry, generous rather than greedy, patient rather than anxious.

4. Selfishness and conceit- A life full of love and good character is the best tombstone. Those with whom you inspire and share love will remember how you made them feel long after their time expired. So carve your name in your heart, not stone. Everything you do for yourself is with you; What you have done for others and the world still exists.

5. Avoid change and growth- If you want to know your past view of the current situation. If you want to know your future, please know your current actions. You must give up the old and make way for the new; The old way has disappeared and will never come back. If you admit and take measures to solve this problem now, you will achieve lasting success. The power of reading habits.

6. Give up when things get tough- There are no failures, only results. Don't lose heart or give up even if things don't go according to your expectations. Understand your abilities and move on. The one who keeps going one step at a time will eventually win. Because the battle is always won long before the final victory. This is a small step, the process of decision-making and action, which is gradually built on each other, and finally leads to a brilliant victory moment.

7. Try to micromanage every little thing- Life should be touched, not strangled. Sometimes you have to relax and let life happen without constant worry and micromanagement. Learn to relax before you squeeze too tight. Take a deep breath. When the dust settles and you can see the trees in the forest again, please take a step forward. You don't have to know exactly where you're going. Whether you understand it or not, everything in life is perfect. Connecting all points only takes some time.

8. Settle down less than you deserve- Strong enough to let go, wise enough to wait for what you deserve. Sometimes you have to be much lower than ever before. Sometimes your eyes need to be washed away by your tears so that you can see a clearer vision again. Don't settle down

9. Wait until tomorrow endlessly- The trouble is, you always think you have more time than you. But one day you will wake up and have no time to do what you have always wanted to do. At that point, you either have achieved the goals you set for yourself, or you will find a list of excuses. Why don't you. Read the last lecture.

10. Laziness and stupidity- The world doesn't owe you anything. You owe the world something. So stop daydreaming and start. Develop the backbone, not the wishbone. Take full responsibility for your life - control it. You are important, you need. It's too late to sit down and wait for someone to do something now. One day is now; The world needs you.