People who have suffered too much will have these three skills

"Eat bitter bitter, square people." Meaning, to be able to eat the hardships, accept the hammer, in order to stand out, make a difference, respected.

However, not everyone is able to withstand bang, setbacks and the test of life, especially for now, a lot of people who grew up in a strike, a heavy competition level, a time of loneliness, is enough to destroy the flowers grew up in the greenhouse, could flatten in the smooth flow of boat, let a person helpless, regret and annoys.

Life never because of a person's accident and more care, time will not because of a person's special and stop waiting.

Most of the time, we have to bite the bullet alone, silently survived those cold Qin cold period, in order to usher in a hundred flowers bloom, spring; Also only through the world of hard, hard experience, can know how to cherish content, enjoy time. This is the truth of the saying, "The bitter is the bitter, and the sweet is the sweet."

By careful observation, it is not difficult to find that those who have suffered too much often practice three skills, which enable them to "stay in diaoyutai despite the wind and waves", and also enable them to live an ordinary life with interest and charm.

01

Bold action

People who have experienced big waves become calm and calm. They will not be trapped by some small things in life, will not be hurt by some emotions, more power in action. Because of the great suffering in life, so learned to bear and bear, become more decisive, calm face the impermanence of the world.

People who have suffered too much know that life is not easy, and know how to cherish the time.

Therefore, they will not waste time in the chatter of complaints, nor will the years wasted in trifles, taciturn but with a clear mind, all ideas into bold action, go all out, to pursue the results they want, to reach the distance they want to go.

People who suffer too much tend to become more "cruel". They will no longer hesitate for certain people and things in life, and can make up their minds to welcome new hope.

Those so-called bitter and pain, tired and hurt, into a person's growth of energy, so that they can be confident, firm out of their own brilliant.

02

Ideas fully

Eat too bitter people, often see through the cold and warm, the vicissitudes of life. They become more rational and wise in their thoughts, creating a quiet and fragrant atmosphere in their hearts. They often like to be alone, to improve themselves in concentration, to enrich themselves in thinking, and to improve themselves in exploration.

People who suffer too much are more peaceful. They have experienced the baptism of the storm, no longer panic, nor do not know what to do, make a fuss, a naive appearance.

They are open to a lot of people or things, see light, see far away, will not be forced to get a good fruit, but in the tangle of barren self, suffering. They learned to go with the flow, let nature take its course, and let everything practice without words.

People who suffer too much often feel grateful. They know that all the sunshine is a gift of nature; All harmony and tranquility is the harmony and symbiosis between people.

They will find the beauty of life in the ordinary days, and they will leave a wide path for others where they can make sense. Because of the rain, so will open an umbrella for others. Keep a compassionate heart, so that warmth flows between people, and harmony leads to good luck.

03

Inner strength

"Bao Jianfeng from sharpening out, plum blossom incense from the bitter cold." People who experience too much pain tend to become stronger. The sweat you shed, the injuries you have suffered, the difficulties you have gone through and the obstacles you have crossed will turn into a ray of light to illuminate your way ahead.

All the suffering and blow, never let a heart has the obsession of people easily concede defeat, bow to the fate, but will let them become more powerful, more tenacious, more independent, with their own will to overcome difficulties, with their own hands to create the future, with their own wisdom to rewrite the fate, write their own life anthem.

Person's life, there is always a dark and long way to go silently alone. It was a lonely, cold, dark period that seemed to have no end in sight, no hope in sight.

But as long as you can along the right direction, step by step forward, not lazy, not compromise, do not give up, you will eventually see a dawn in silence open, see the other side of the flower in quietly blooming. Through the darkness, you will become different, brave and strong, not afraid of the wind and frost of fate.

The most important thing in life is never to see the flowers blooming in plain sailing, but to be able to achieve a better self in the twists and turns.

After hardships and hardships, and trained a clank iron; Cross the hardships bumpy, and heart a cavity of pride and blood; Through the bleak time, and live a calm and free, is a person's real ability, benefit for life