People of really high rank have no emotions in their mouths

I don't know if you've noticed that people who like to be emotional around them are more likely to lose control of their lives.

When he encounters a bad thing, he will be surrounded by the sound of his complaints, and the result is that the more he complains, the worse it gets;

When you are happy, you will show off all over the world, wishing that everyone in the world knows about it, and then you end up regretting the happy things.

Hideki Wada, a great Japanese literary figure, said something that I agree with:

"It's normal for people to have emotions, but if they can't control them, they can only be reduced to emotional animals."

The lower the level of the people, have emotions on the vent, early fell into the slave of emotions.

The higher the level, the more they know how to manage their emotions.

Have you ever noticed that people who like to hang on to their complaints have a life at a glance?

Netizen @Peipei once shared her experience.

Once, the company asked a group of two people to visit customers, as a newcomer, and her partner is an old employee.

At first, Pepe held the mentality of learning to get along with each other.

After a long time, she realized that the other party is particularly whiny.

Whenever he opened his mouth, he either complained about the long overtime hours or about being criticized by the leaders.

This led him to stay in the company for ten years, but still only a team leader.

There's this quote from A World Without Complaining:

"Complaining never attracts, brings those things you want;

On the contrary, complaining will make you never get rid of those things you don't want."

No amount of whining will change the status quo.

And high level people never complain, they have only one thing on their mind and that is to solve problems.

Media personality @table used to work in an education company and was the fastest rising newcomer in the company.

Once, the company had to go to dock a very large partner, but because the docking colleague did not notify in place, the venue was in chaos upon arrival.

As soon as the colleagues arrived, they complained all the time, either saying that the cooperation unit did not pay attention to them, or complaining that the docking colleague was unreliable, and some people even played with their cell phones there.

The table, however, did not complain, but looked around and quickly set up a plan.

He immediately mobilized his colleagues and set up the tasks so that the work could be successfully completed.

After this incident, he was successfully promoted to supervisor.

In our life, we will always encounter some unsatisfactory things, but worries and anxieties will not be merciful because you are full of complaints.

Instead of spending your time complaining about the world, think about how to solve the problem.

Career blogger @FatSpeakCareer, has shared an experience.

When he was young, he had negotiated a contract renewal with a client on behalf of his company.

Originally, the matter had been nailed down, only to sign a contract.

As a result, the other company went back on its word and decided to work with someone else before signing the contract.

Thinking of so many days of hard work in vain, he was furious.

In the heat of the moment, he barged into the technical department's office and rebuked loudly, "Look at the garbage manuals you made, which caused us to be canceled by our old client!"

After getting angry, he was still not relieved and even kicked the glass door of the office in front of everyone.

After everything was done, he realized he was in trouble.

The company wanted to promote him this year, and when they saw his overzealous behavior, they fired him on the spot.

You see, blindly venting your temper, instead of solving the problem, can screw everything up.

Writer Huflander said, "Of all the adverse influences in the world, the one that can do the most damage is often excessive emotion."

Don't take everything to heart, quit the bad temper, and life will be what you want it to be.

When Hinohara Shigeaki, a famous Japanese doctor, introduced preventive treatment in Japan, he was opposed by many of his peers.

Many of them scolded him for not being able to distinguish reality, and some radicals even stood outside his house to block him.

Despite his anger at their lack of understanding, Shigeaki never responded to the negative comments and stuck to his guns.

It was only after the preventive treatment yielded good results that those people were dumbfounded.

You can express anger, but don't express it angrily.

When emotions get to your head, cool your mind promptly and don't let your anger run out of your mouth.

From now on, replace your temper with peace and harmony, so that your words and actions do not get out of hand, and your words are as warm as jade, and your life will naturally be transformed.