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Moments in my life that have made an impact on me

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By Tian398Published 3 years ago 4 min read

Come to think of it, there are three things that have affected me most so far. They are a little long. They are all true stories.

1. When I was in high school, I got neurasthenia syndrome, and did not sleep at all for five days. My parents were not around, and the boy who liked me took me to see the disease. So I felt good at that time) into the middle class, feeling that this disease affected my whole high school and even to the university there are sequelae. At the beginning, I could not accept this kind of gap, and I was very angry with myself and the people around me. Every day, I thought about why I was so bad now. Obviously I had worked so hard, so I was almost in a state of depression all day long and had a very unhappy life. I'm not going to go into detail here, but that's what happened.

2. My mother forced me to study medicine. First, my parents divorced when I was 3 years old. Later, my mother left the city and I grew up with my grandmother. My mother is a very controlling person. So after the college entrance examination, I filled in the volunteer, reported my least favorite medicine, I had been like mathematics in high school, want to apply for a professional at least can learn mathematics, she said a girl to learn what mathematics, also said that if not to learn medicine, she will not give me the cost of living, so I have no way, and then reported medicine, but shut myself in the room crying for a few days. I was the tail of a crane in my class. To tell the truth, I had been the tail of a crane in college since I was a child. However, I could not learn well and I did not know why.

3. I lived apart from my favorite grandma when I was a freshman. Because my grandmother is in poor health, she needs to live with my aunt and be taken care of. In the third year of high school, I was very afraid that she would do something alone at home. Besides, the neurasthenia syndrome was not well at that time, so I cried under the quilt in the dormitory almost every night. Then I began to live alone in my freshman year. At that time, I was not used to it. My courage was small and I was afraid of the dark. Later, I felt that I was becoming more and more independent, and I felt that I was becoming more and more powerful. At the beginning, I could not accept that people who had been with me for more than ten years were separated from me like this. I felt very sad, but later I thought that as long as she could be happy.

4. I learned makeup in my senior year. At that time, I fixed 1000 yuan a month. Besides, I had to save the tuition fees. The school I studied in was very expensive and far from the city, so it was not very good to work. Spent 6000 to learn a professional makeup, also spent 2000 to get a certificate. At that time was really a bite to go, and the money to graduate from college. I lived on a shoestring all my life before I started working, but even with that I spent a lot of money on a bunch of crap, and to think that was the only thing that was huge and I didn't regret it. Many decisions are a hammer, really can't estimate his value before the decision. That's probably the thing that's affected me the most. It was a decision that literally changed my life.

(1) The real transformation is to realize the transformation from a wild man to a girl (the photo of graduation certificate is too exciting compared with the present, but there is no courage in the picture above)

(2) Graduated from the first job into the industry top ten kind of company, the director is a Yan control, and then often listen to his comments on the new interview, "this is too ugly, too ugly don't do this, will affect the mood of the customer ~" is not become beautiful can not get this offer

(3) After entering the company, because I learned professional makeup, I quickly got familiar with many older sisters, which also caused great influence on my career

(4) Work until now, the professional certificate column will still write a "senior makeup artist", this certificate will always cause the interest of employers, so I started, polishing a period of helpless pain students, in order to dream of unremitting struggle, to express I am good oh, this theme 5, I and my male ticket is network to know then rush to meet a lot of people present, The first thing he said to me was "you're beautiful" and then he started chasing me

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