"Mom, why don't you live alone?" The man made a decision, the mother begged for mercy, and the wife laughed

As Zhang Ailing once said: "A middle-aged man often feels lonely because when he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on."

Parents need his support, his wife needs his company and care, his children need his support and care, and the pressure of life is enough to overwhelm a man, but a man, as the mainstay and the spiritual support of a large family, will not easily follow him. Parents, wives and children say that it is not easy for them, and they will not easily shed tears in front of them.

Therefore, for those in-laws who always dislike their daughter-in-law, let you get along well with your daughter-in-law and don't trouble each other, not only for your daughter-in-law, but also for your son. You are embarrassing your daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law is also the apple of their parents' palm. If you can't stand this anger, you will go to men and ask them to do justice. In the end, isn't the problem still left to your son?

As Susan Forward said: "For manipulative parents, their children's marriage is extremely threatening. They see their children's spouses as rivals for their children's affection, and they go to war with them. In order to take into account the relationship between the two sides, it is often the enemy on both sides."

At that time, no matter what the son does, it is not good. Protecting your wife, you were slapped in the face, you felt that your son was disrespectful, that your son disobeyed you, and you felt uneasy about your conscience. Protecting you, your wife ran away in anger, your grandchildren became the children of a single-parent family, and maybe they were taken away by your daughter-in-law, so that you can't see them, why bother?

"Xiaojuan, what do you want to eat today? Braised pork, vinegared cabbage, tomato and egg soup, Lingling wants to eat egg custard, right! Okay, Mom, I'll go buy the meat, pick the pork belly, you'll have it when you get home ate."

Hearing Auntie Du's words, she was very surprised by the people she knew very well. What Auntie Du said about Xiaojuan was not her daughter, but her daughter-in-law, and Auntie Du did not give the impression of being such a caring, kind and good mother-in-law.

After listening to the jokes of the people around her, Aunt Du was very embarrassed and told everyone about what happened recently in her family. The reason why she changed from a bad mother-in-law to a good mother-in-law is because her son went crazy.

01. When I was a daughter-in-law, I neither met a good mother-in-law nor a good husband;

Before her son went mad, even though many people around thought that Aunt Du was not a good mother-in-law and thought that Aunt Du was demanding of her daughter-in-law, Aunt Du did not take it seriously, just because she came here like this, and her mother-in-law treated her like this.

"My first child gave birth to a daughter, and my father-in-law scolded me, and my mother-in-law threatened me. If the second child could not give birth to a son, she would divorce me. My husband also complained that I was useless."

At home, all household chores, including laundry, cooking, cooking, etc., are Auntie Du's work, and taking care of her son is also Auntie Du's work. When the food is on the table, Auntie Du feeds her son. Her parents-in-law and husband never wait for anyone, so Auntie Du will always leave leftovers.

Not only that, but Auntie Du's in-laws were sick and hospitalized, and Auntie Du served every time. Auntie Du's hospital ran from both ends of the house. She needed to serve her in-laws, take care of her son, and cook for her husband.

"My mother-in-law told me more than once that a woman's task is to serve a large family and reproduce, and men are responsible for making money to support the family. Without them, the whole family will starve to death. They are already tired enough, if we even If the family is not well taken care of, how can a man make money with peace of mind? At that time, everyone in the family will have to drink the northwest wind."

At the request of her in-laws and her husband, Auntie Du became a free babysitter at home, and she thought this was what she should do. When she became a mother-in-law, she also planned to ask her daughter-in-law like her mother-in-law.

02. According to the way my mother-in-law treated me, I asked my daughter-in-law to provoke my son and asked me to live alone;

However, Auntie Du's daughter-in-law is not a submissive person like Auntie Du. She is the only daughter and the apple of her parents' palm. Like Auntie Du's son, she graduated from a key university, and her salary is only one or two thousand less than that of Auntie Du's son. How could she be willing to become Auntie Du who does all the housework and wants to be honored? A free babysitter who does not eat while working and lets men sit back and relax?

Furthermore, as the pearl of the parents' palm, the daughter-in-law also loves her daughter very much. Therefore, when Aunt Du complained that the daughter-in-law only gave birth to a girl and gave birth to a second child, the daughter-in-law rudely went back.

"Mom, if you want a grandson, go find your son. Don't you know? The determinant of having a boy or girl is not a woman, but a man." Then, the daughter-in-law gave Aunt Du a lot of knowledge about chromosomes. Aunt Du was speechless.

The son also likes his daughter very much, saying that this is his little padded jacket, and complaining that Aunt Du can't speak, so that Aunt Du can't do anything other than sulking.

As for letting the daughter-in-law take care of the housework, it is even more impossible. Aunt Du proposed to let her daughter-in-law resign. The daughter-in-law did not hurry and made a calculation for Aunt Du: "The mortgage is 6,500, the water, electricity and gas bills are added up to about 1,000, and the telephone bill is two or three hundred. Mom, your son's monthly salary Just over 10,000, if I resign, our family will have 3,000 living expenses per month, is it enough? Is it enough to raise a child?"

Aunt Du couldn't pick it up, but she felt angry and aggrieved again, so she and her daughter-in-law quarreled relentlessly. After Aunt Du's son came back, she settled the situation in one sentence.

"Mom, you should live alone. In this way, the two of you will not quarrel. Wife, show my mother the house and rent it quickly."

When she heard her son's decision, Aunt Du panicked. She didn't want to live alone. Her husband had passed away. She couldn't stand such a lonely life, so she quickly begged her son for mercy. fix this.

03. After listening to his complaints, I realized that I was at odds with my daughter-in-law and made him miserable. How can I do this?

Aunt Du felt very aggrieved, and sat on the sofa complaining that her son married a wife and forgot his mother, and he no longer wanted his mother. The son listened patiently, and then had a sincere talk with Aunt Du.

"Mom, I know you've been wronged. When your grandparents and dad were here, you couldn't eat or sleep well. From morning to night, my dad didn't know how to feel sorry for you. To be honest, I really see it. I don't like my dad. When a man marries a wife, he wants to spoil and protect him, otherwise why would parents entrust their daughter to you and let her have children for you? I decided at the time that I would never be me A man like Dad makes his wife suffer a lot."

"Besides, Mom, when you quarrel with her, it's not her who is unlucky, it's me!"

The son told Aunt Du that every time she quarreled with her daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law would go to her son to complain, and she would drive her son out of the room when she got angry. The son has to coax his wife and deal with his mother at the same time. The pressure is huge, he can't concentrate at work, and even suffers insomnia.

Although Auntie Du is old-fashioned and disliked by her daughter-in-law, as a mother, she cannot let her son suffer, let alone become the culprit who harmed her son.

In the end, Auntie Du compromised and was a lot more polite to her daughter-in-law. She would never give birth to a second child. Her son also said that they had plans to have a second child. own mouth.

Auntie Du's daughter-in-law is also a generous person. Seeing her husband's efforts, her mother-in-law has also changed, and she is no longer angry. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has improved.

04. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only the man is on the wife's side, and the mother-in-law has nothing to do.

Chen Daoming, a national first-class actor, once said a golden sentence about marriage management: "When you put down your face and treat your wife well, it means that you have become a real man; when you give your wife enough face, it means that you have succeeded; When your wife always gives you face, it means that you are already a person."

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only the man is on the wife's side, and the mother-in-law has nothing to do. When husband and wife work together and use their strength in one place, the marriage can be as stable as a rock, and no one else can destroy it at all.

Just like in "Knowing or Not", when the little Qin family dealt with Gu Tingye and Sheng Minglan, they used shady tricks at first, pretending to be a loving stepmother outside, so that people who didn't know that Gu Tingye and Sheng Minglan were unfilial and corrupted Gu Tingye. With Sheng Minglan's reputation, later, the reason why Xiao Qin chose to tear his face and hurt his hands was because Gu Tingye and Sheng Minglan and his wife were of the same mind, and they couldn't break it at all, which made Xiao Qin's dog jump over the wall.

A man stands on his wife's side, wholeheartedly defending his wife, and a mother-in-law who wants to keep the love between mother and son doesn't like her daughter-in-law, and she can't get along with her son.