Women, Peace, and Self-Acceptance

The reason why many women don't live a 'good life' is largely because they feel they are competing with the whole world: with themselves, their partners, their parents, and their children. This is often accompanied by internal friction and tension all day long.

Whatever a person cares about will control them, and then their heart will not be free, and suffering will arise.

When a person doesn't care about everything, then everything in the world can feel like it belongs to them, and they will have the leisure to appreciate the flowers blooming and falling, and the clouds rolling and unrolling in front of their door.

If a person feels that they are inferior to others in every way—they may feel they are not pretty enough, not good enough, or incapable—then they will fall into self-consumption, constantly belittling themselves, and finally, they can only keep escaping.

When you feel that your partner does not meet your expectations in every way and that many things are inconsistent with your opinions, you will feel very annoyed and angry.

At this point, you have to understand one thing: everyone is unique, and it is impossible for everyone to agree with you in everything. It is better to learn to respect the differences of others and allow others to be themselves.

Our parents raised us, and we are grateful to them for bringing us up. We should be filial to them, but our parents are also ordinary people. It is their first time being parents, so they have some shortcomings. We should also learn to understand and respect them so that it does not affect our filial piety towards them.

Children are the result of life’s desire. It is a blessing for them to come into our lives. It is also a fate that we are fortunate to become their parents.

Children belong to the future and tomorrow. They have their own cognition and ideas. We must also allow them to be themselves.

The reason why most women don’t live a 'good life' is that they are too anxious. You always want everything to be perfect. There is no perfect thing in the world. Everything has cracks, and that’s where the light comes in.

Everyone is born ordinary, and everyone has both shortcomings and advantages. We must learn to focus on the big picture and let go of the small details. Some things should be ignored, and we should not fuss over trivial matters.

It not only affects the harmony among family members but also hurts feelings. Finally, it hurts the heart and lungs. You will be mentally exhausted all day long and ruin your body.

Don't cultivate yourself in other people's hearts, and don't force others in your own heart. Allow yourself to be yourself and others to be others, and each of you can bloom brilliantly.

When you transfer all the problems to yourself, learn to look inward when you have problems. It takes madness to change others, but it takes godly effort to change yourself. Compete less with others, make peace with yourself, and you will be much happier!

Thank you for reading!