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Unwed Widow

Who am I?

By Julie O'Hara - Author, Poet and Spiritual WarriorPublished 4 years ago Updated 3 years ago 1 min read

We lived together for so very long

Built a life, made many memories

But we never took the vows

Blending us together as a man and wife

We never felt the need for such convention

You were happy to call me ‘girlfriend’

And nothing more

And I thought I was happy too.

But then that tragic night

When the police knocked to tell me

You were never coming home again

And we lost you.

And I lost me.

Left behind with no identity

I was

More than a girlfriend

More than a life partner

More than a lover

But not quite a wife

Sharing years of intimacy, trust and love

But now there is nothing

To define us.

I have become a contradiction in terms

I am an unwed widow

- Julie O'Hara

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Julie O'Hara - Author, Poet and Spiritual Warrior

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