Love and Maturity

It's not that the more mature you are, the harder it is to fall in love, but rather, the more mature you are, the better you can discern whether it's truly love or not.

As we mature, we accumulate a tapestry of experiences. The people we've loved and the events we've lived through become ingrained in our thoughts and spirit. No matter how far we journey, we carry these lessons as essential nourishment.

When a mature person experiences emotional turmoil due to love, they feel a sense of life spiraling out of control, where everything deviates from their expectations. This inability to accept a loss of control clashes with the mature individual's desire to manage their own lives and emotions.

A genuinely mature person possesses a relatively stable perspective on love. When faced with a potential relationship, they carefully consider its potential benefits. Essentially, they seek to derive what they desire from the relationship; otherwise, they are less inclined to initiate it.

The more mature a person becomes, the stronger their desire to validate their capabilities. When they achieve sufficient self-assurance, they realize they can thrive independently.

Whether male or female, those who exhibit significant maturity may experience a diminished yearning for love, this arises from a clear understanding that authentic and beautiful love demands the confluence of the right time, place, and people, and ultimately, requires fate.

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