Hoe Your Own Row
A corny Tale of Parental Love
Daddy never left the farm where he was born
Here he will be buried on some sad morn
Here where he was raised
Right next to his dad, saints be praised
Like his daddy before him, my father grew corn
Yellow, tall, sweet, and not to be scorned
Row upon row planted out straight and true
Never once heard him say he wanted something new
He hit the fields in the morning and again after lunch
With me by his side humming a bunch
We grew tall stalks that smelled so great
Yet to leave one day I knew was my fate
…
When I spoke of other horizons afar
He’d sip his corn whiskey from an old jar
I told him of my friends leaving this place
He’d speak of the wonder on my mother’s face
Then when all was said and done
He’d hug me and say I love ya my son
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Then ..
He’d just nod and say
Hoe your own row son
Hoe your own row
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He’d move from row to row amongst the ears
His eyes full of happiness, never a single tear
As he moved that old cart on with nary a fuss
Hoe your own row from dawn to dusk
Still, I recall from the day I was able to listen
What my Dad told me as the morning dew glistened
Same as his daddy told him when he was still a boy
Told him as he hoed with a metal-tined toy
At breakfast, lunch, dinner, or in the swaying field
He just made me promise I would never yield
…
Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
Always hoe your own row son…
Always hoe your own row
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Make it your own son, water it with fun
Fertilize it with compassion, grow it with love
Hoe your own row with your own gardening gloves
Hoe it in the country, city, or a town
Hoe it your way and don’t ever look down
So long as you can whistle while you do your work
You’ll never be tempted a job to shirk
No need to stay in this one crop village
Too many other spots wait to be pillaged
…
Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
Just do it side by side with someone you love
… hoe your own row son…
Don’t let anybody else cause push to come to shove
…
When I was sixteen and near graduation
He told me his vision with eyes of elation
This corn maze is mine and I truly love it fine
It suited my father before me like Mogen David wine
It suits me too and here with your Ma I’ll always be
But son, there’s a whole other world you can go and see
So, when it comes to corn, hoe your own row
…
Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
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Grow a crop of kids in a maze of your own
So long as you’re happy with whatever you’ve grown
Teach them to play outside or in a digital haze
Hoe what you love in the light of your days
Then beneath the moon on a cool spring night
Look at what you grew and be proud it’s right
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Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
Always hoe your own row son..
Always hoe your own row
Just do it side by side with someone you love
… hoe your own row son…
Don’t let anybody else cause push to come to shove
…
My first born lies there in his crib
Wailing, crying, spitting on his bib
As I kneel by his bed at night to pray
I always know exactly what to say
…
Hoe your own row son…
Always hoe your own row
Just do it side by side with someone you love
… hoe your own row son…
Don’t let anybody else cause push to come to shove
About the Creator
Andrew C McDonald
Andrew McDonald was a 911 dispatcher for 30 yrs with a B.S. in Math (1985). He served as an Army officer 1985 to 1992, honorably exiting a captain.
https://www.amazon.com/Killing-Keys-Andrew-C-McDonald-ebook/dp/B07VM843XL?ref_=ast_author_dp




Comments (3)
This reminded me of my dad. He grew up on a farm with his 4 sisters. He said my grandparents would give them their own rows when they were young. But I'm not sure what kinda vegetation they planted. I was born and raised in the city. I can barely keep a plant alive although I only have to water them, lol. Loved your poem!
I love the way you describe your love for him.❤️❤️
Sweet & inspirational!!!💕❤️❤️