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Your ties have failed to make you richer and richer. You should know that earning money is also dependent on the method and ability

Life is often lost in the gain and gained in the loss.

By Michael M JonesPublished 3 years ago 5 min read

The whole life of a person is the pursuit of perfection, the whole process of gaining and losing. From the beginning of nothing, but has its own to think, and then to go in the case of anything can not take away.

If you use a word to describe the path of life, I think that is: gain and loss.

Loss in gain, something in the loss.

From a teenager with a dream to a thirty-year-old with a surge of work pressure. Forty is not confused and then fifty knows the fate of the day.

The road of life is extremely short.

It is only that each part of the human being will be accompanied by the continuous upgrading or changing of their character roles and obligations, and some people gradually hesitate from the ideal and reality.

Twenty years old, feel up one day in the morning to eat KFC, buy clothes and skincare products, eat a meal in the afternoon seabed hot pot, go to the movies at noon, do nail art, and then go to a charcoal grill at night. Feel a day is idealized, itself very happy.

Thirty years old, I feel that now there is no overtime, no mortgage car loan to be paid, their own to the farmers market to buy some seafood to treat themselves to this January hardship, eat a meal to organize the products, open the computer to watch the favorite TV series, they're own very satisfied.

Whether male or female, in having a home, after having a baby, the more you feel that earning money is the key.

The ultimate idealization, can't pay back the housing loan, or car loan, can't buy things, can't enroll children in interest classes, can't give children assets.

More and more they work overtime day after day, diligently and desperately scrimping and saving.

For the sake of a better home, to better actualize the material and live.

The parents, shoulders more than good care of the baby, shaping the baby's obligations, and today's society, unlike the previous, endless and invisible blind climbing too much, a variety of remedial classes, a variety of interest courses.

The fact is that you will be able to see that other people's children are talented, smart, and capable, and how they would like their babies to lag to keep up with it.

However, earning money is also dependent on the method and workability. Rich people can only get richer, poor people are getting poorer.

People who can be rich, and family members have a harmonious relationship and understand the project investment and willingness.

The family is not rich, but most of the following aspects of the problem are involved.

1, not easy to personal financial planning and project investment, not easy to manage money method have you ever found, before and self a starting point of people, after thirty years, but more and more rich, itself is backward, and others far.

Not easy to manage money, thinking about how much to spend is how much, and even if the money is not yet in hand, they have been gradually spending manipulation.

This kind of people can only use the money for leisure and entertainment, daily life, not easy to overall planning to love their money.

Money is only money to spend, the days are naturally tight. As if money is not saved, learn to manage money and investment well, so that you can complete the money to make money and live richer and richer. Naturally, there are also born with the brain to understand the business opportunities, and their own business to make their lives rich.

If you are not very smart very understand the situation of social development market demand, this step or not arbitrarily try.

No need to blindly follow the trend of self-employment, and eventually bear the debt, was living in plus a mountain.

2, the family is not harmonious, not united, there is no main person often say the old saying, family unity everything prosperous a harmonious attractive united family members relationship, will certainly be the most solid backing on your road to earning money, cut through the hard road of thorns the sharpest sword.

The wealth of the family is the result of a common struggle for the family. Only the united, no main heart.

Also on the road of struggle almost strength, although the three stinkers, top a Zhuge Liang, if there is a three Zhuge Liang, 2 stinkers, of course, the struggle is more powerful.

Like some homes living in a mansion villa, open a luxury car, but everyone in the family has their own as desired, once the layout of the taut, must have everything to split.

It happens to be because the capital is more, divided into clear, there is market competition, and every good talent at home gradually calculates the gains and losses, planning their rights and interests.

Therefore home prosperity, long-term development trend, to have the main person to guide the direction of the big group together with hard work.

3, there are bad habits, that can not be corrected earn money itself is not easy, if you can not save money to invest money, but also dip bad habits, that no doubt earns without spending more.

I have a female reader's letter, said to marry her husband, their restaurant and a shopping mall, life is not very rich is also considered well-off life.

But after the husband is not sure where to learn the bad habits, gradually buys lottery tickets, the family brothers are slowly growing up, not for the baby to think about the future, gambling addiction is getting bigger and bigger, to the end only a small supermarket, said now their own very anxious and very helpless.

Bad habits will indeed make their original property plummet, human nature is bottomless, gradually picking to try the case, it has long since entered the bottom of infinity.

To earn money, stay money, more or less bad hobbies to quit as soon as possible.

4, stick to the stereotypes, do not dare to try to learn to reach, stick to the stereotypes is a good thing, if your overall goal is only to reach in today I have all the salary capital, does not need a lot, then naturally it is possible.

But if you have elderly people above you and small children below you. Salary leaching is not enough for daily expenses, you should be more prepared for other positions, ultimately the source of money is more limited, the money spent out endlessly.

You have not tried to be diligent, there is no need to gullibly believe in people who have long been unsuccessful, people and people are different, and potential and opportunities are also different.

The good things are all their pursuit of perfect mastery, you want to live what kind of life only their own told to count.

No one can be successful at once, do not be afraid of not being successful, learn from experience and move forward again, to think about how the future needs to be idealized non-stop struggle.

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