Worry

Don’t worry about the haters…They are just angry because the truth you speak contradicts the lie they live. (Morgan Freeman).

I know it has been a while since I wrote a piece of material. However, I have had a lot of things going on in my life, and now I am back. Sometimes, you have to reset your mental health back up because the haters will do all they can to drown you out of the positive head space that you are in. No one realizes the mental strength it took for you to not say a word about a person’s actions.

I don’t even waste my energy or time on a hater because I know they are only angry with themselves. After all, they already know that the truth I speak will always contradict the lie that the other person lives. Accountability is extremely high on my list, and anyone in my inner circle knows this about me. I know I hold myself accountable for all my actions, good and bad. So, for those of you who think that you can talk disrespectfully to me one day and then have the nerve to come back in a few days acting like you never said or did what you said and did to me, you better think again because I am not the one.

I have learned over the years that life is too short to stress over a hater. Once I have seen how you move and operate with me, I will disconnect myself from you and all that is connected to you. I already know that you don’t love me and do not have my best interest at heart. You are only concerned about yourself and whatever else I will allow you to take from me. The funny thing about this is that I will not react instantly when you say and do what you do. I will fall back and watch you continue to be full of yourself.

I no longer worry about my haters because now I see my haters as fuel to keep moving forward and showing all of you that what I do is not your business. I love it when I move in silence because you always mind everyone else’s business, not your own. Then, when you see someone else starting to shine and move positively, you get into your feelings, handing out fake compliments towards the person you said to that person’s face that you never believed in the first place.

I can say that I am so proud of myself for all the positive changes that I have made for myself and my emotional and mental health. It still amazes me how others will say nasty comments to others working hard on their issues, but because you want others to feel misrealable with you, this is what you do. I am not the one to do the back and forth with someone I know is irrelevant to me.

I also love the comments others make when they say things like, “You have changed,” like this is something new to you and not new to them. Of course, it is new to them because they realize that you see right through their bull shit, and they know for themselves that you will not allow others to manipulate you ever again. Being that I have opened my eyes to your fake ass tendencies, you are the one that is running scared because you do not know how to take me now. I have to change because it is part of the process of life.