Win

Everyone wants to win, but winning is not easy. A winning word has seventeen paintings and five parts.

01

Dying: Awareness of Crisis

"Book of Changes" says: "A gentleman works hard all day long, and is vigilant at night, without blame." Only when a person is vigilant and always prepared to deal with danger can he avoid disasters. The people who really come to the end, the more comfortable the environment, the less they will slack off. Such people can detect danger in time and deal with the crisis. There are very few people in "A Dream of Red Mansions" who die well, but Mammy Lai is an exception. Her two sons are the housekeepers of Jia's house, and she has quite a position in Jia's house and is quite respectable in front of Jia's mother. It stands to reason that the glory of her life is inexhaustible, and she can enjoy her old age in peace. But she knew that as long as she was still a slave, her net worth and status were all in the hands of her master. So she planned ahead, and when the Jia family was prosperous, she let her grandson get rid of his slave status and read and read with his son and buddies. Later, through the Jia family's relationship, he donated a county official to his grandson. When the Jia family fell, the Lai family not only survived, but also surpassed its own class.

There is a saying in Zuo Zhuan: "Be prepared for danger in times of peace, and be prepared to be prepared." A person in comfort can think of possible dangers and be prepared to avoid disasters. Crisis is a crisis, there is an opportunity in a crisis, only those who smell the danger can see the opportunity. If a person wants to win, he has to be vigilant at all times, and he cannot be too comfortable and comfortable.

02

Mouth: the way of speaking

A person is inseparable from talking in life, from workplace to family to society. Whether it is a meeting, a report, an apology, a communication, or a talk, a good expression is required. The same is the talk, some people speak like a knife, and their sentences are heart-piercing; some people are like a spring breeze and feel more comfortable. Some people win as soon as they speak, and some lose as soon as they speak. This is a kind of ability, but also a kind of cultivation. When the comedian Xia Yan was dying, his secretary said to him, "I'll call the doctor." When the secretary was about to go out, Xia Yan struggled and said, "It's not a call, it's a request." Poor, let people see Xia Yan's cultivation and realm.

When suffering from illness, he still does not forget to respect others. How can such a person not be respected. Cai Kangyong once said: "The way of speaking is actually to look at others in the eyes and put them in the heart." Now many people are learning speaking skills, but they forget to learn the real way of speaking. Words are the voice of the heart, and words are the things that come out of the heart. No matter how many skills you have, you will inadvertently reveal your inner thoughts and expose your true appearance. The way of speaking is the way of cultivating the heart. Only when you have others in your heart and learn to respect others can you speak comfortably and get along well with others. Such people can gain the favor of others and gain the support of others.

03

month: good health

Human internal organs, liver, spleen, stomach, lungs and kidneys have a month character. The moon evolved from flesh, not only referring to time, but also the human body. Winning is important, but the body is a bargaining chip that cannot be given up. As the saying goes: a sick emperor is not as good as a healthy beggar. Health is 1, success is followed by several 0s, without 1, no amount of zeros is useless. The body is the capital of the revolution. If the body is overwhelmed by hard work, what is the meaning of hard work? A friend once started out in sales, often staying up late to socialize, drinking all night, and buying a car and a house before the age of 30. Every class reunion, his classmates envy him. But a while ago he suddenly asked to borrow money, and everyone knew that he had cancer. Looking at the mortgaged house and the borrowed money, he said: Fortunately, it is not late. Yes, in front of health and life, wealth and success are all clouds. Schopenhauer said: "Nine-tenths of happiness is based on health, and health is everything." The most stupid behavior of human beings is to exchange health for wealth, and then exchange wealth for health. Winning is to live a more comfortable life. If you lose your health and live in pain every day, what is the use of winning? In life, you must know how to be content. If you are free from disease and disaster, you have already won most of the time.

04

Bei: Take it the right way

Some people joke that all the ways to get rich overnight are written in the Criminal Code. A penny beats a hero. One can love money, but it must be done in a proper way. General Liang Ji of the Eastern Han Dynasty was inexperienced and inexperienced, and was in charge of the court for twenty years. During his tenure in office, he was insatiable, searching for wealth everywhere. Under the banner of the emperor, the census of the rich households in the country. Put them on trumped-up charges, extort money, raid homes, and amass wealth for themselves. Liang Ji himself was extravagant and built a forest garden for himself for nearly a thousand miles, pavilions and pavilions, carved beams and painted buildings, which were extremely luxurious. Later, Emperor Heng of the Han Dynasty ascended the throne and sent elite troops to encircle and suppress it. Liang Ji knew that a catastrophe was coming and committed suicide by taking poison. The wealth empire, which was built with great effort, collapsed like this. Those wealth that do not match the virtues, how they are acquired, how they will be lost.

Confucius said: "Unrighteousness is rich and noble, and I am like a floating cloud." Wealth and status obtained through improper means are like floating clouds in the sky, meaningless. Even though a person is dressed in splendid clothes, he is uneasy and is always judged by his conscience. What fun is there on such days. Money is something outside the body, but conscience is the foundation of a person's life. Don't be blinded by wealth and take the wrong path. One step at a time, hard work can make you rich.

05

Where: normal attitude

Wang Yangming said: "It is common sense not to be happy with wealth; not to worry about loss is common sense; to not be arrogant about fame is common sense; to not be angry with slander is common sense." A truly powerful person, whether it is gain or loss, whether it is praise or praise Slander, the heart can remain calm, and no waves. Wang Yangming's father, Wang Hua, was the champion of the Ming Dynasty. As the son of the champion, Wang Yangming had high hopes from his family since he was a child. In addition, he is talented and intelligent, and many people think that he will be the next champion. However, he took part in the imperial examinations at the age of 22 and failed twice in a row. The classmates were all ashamed of being inferior, but Wang Yangming said: "People in the world are ashamed of not being first, and I am ashamed of not being first." They are not happy with things, and do not feel sorry for themselves.

Maintain a normal attitude, the road of life can be unrestrained and calm. When Wang Yangming returned to Beijing after he completed his study of the mind, many people slandered the study of the mind as a heresy. Wang Yangming didn't care, as if he wasn't attacking himself. He organized several lectures in succession, gained a large number of disciples with his own ability, and established a situation in which psychology and physicism were separated. Wang Yangming said: "You can avoid bad reputation outside, as long as you learn how to do it yourself." You can't avoid others' bad reputation, so ignore it, let your heart down, cultivate your own heart, and do your own thing well. Only by maintaining a normal mind can we maintain an inner peace, not to be carried by the outside world, not to be influenced by gains and losses.

Indifference can make one's ambition clear, and tranquility can lead to far-reaching. A person is single-mindedly focused on the cause in front of him. After a long time, no one can ignore him, and God will not treat him badly. ▽ Zeng Guofan once said: "Making things is up to people, and things are up to God." God's will is always high and difficult to ask, and many times "winning" is a matter of probability. It depends on the situation and luck. However, if a person is diligent and not slack, gets along well, is healthy, behaves well, and has a good attitude. Even if such a person is not rich or noble, but living a full and happy life, is it not a winner in life?