What kind of life do you want to live, make what kind of choice

Some people say that they have no choice in life, they can only listen to their parents' arrangements and follow the path they choose.

When others dare to "rebel", you choose to listen to your parents and do what you have to do, but only after you grow up to feel regret, and are undoubtedly in denial of their past.

There is no turning back in life, no matter right or wrong, the choice is made, instead of complaining about life and regretting the choice you made, you should learn to take responsibility and take every choice in life seriously.

What kind of life do you want to live, and what kind of choice to make?

1, cherish all that you have around you

Every time you watch a power drama, it seems that those in high places are bound to become lonely, no matter how powerful people are, it is difficult to "career, love double satisfaction", but is this the "tragedy" of those in high places? Perhaps this is just their choice, to be faster on the position they want to make the choice.

Just then they thought they could give up, but ignored the fact that people are mindful, that there will be one who will want two.

But everything may be as it should be, since the choice to give up something, is very difficult to get it again.

There are gains and losses, and it is said that "I am fortunate to have gained, I lost my life", but it is also their own choice.

However, not everyone can get the supreme choice, so it is better to grasp the moment, cherish everything you have now, do not wait to lose and then regret it, then it is too late.

For example, when you have time to go home and stay with your family, although you have to work hard to fight for your career while you are young, then you have to squeeze out some time to stay with your family, from the time we grow up, the time we spend with our families starts to be less than a day, now not with, afraid of the future want to stay with no chance.

Life's accidents are always unexpected, instead of letting the accident remind us what is most important, why not start cherishing everything around you now, whether it is family, friendship, or love?

2、Manage your emotions and turn over a new leaf

Rob White said, "At any time, a person should not be a slave to their emotions, should not make all actions are subject to their emotions, but should, in turn, control the emotions."

People who are used to indulging their emotions can let their lives spiral out of control.

At that time, whatever choices are made will seem powerless in the face of the loss of control.

Therefore, if you want to take control of your life, you should learn to manage your emotions, otherwise, you will be led by the nose by your emotions.

In the workplace, emotional people generally do not mix very well, after all, they do not like to have a bomb that could explode at any time, a disagreement with people arguing, to put it nicely true nature, to put it badly is low emotional intelligence.

All are going to work to make money people, who have so much leisure and elegance to pay attention to your excessive burst of emotions, only to wait for the comfort of colleagues, but a resignation notice.

Everyone has emotions, you have a sad time, and others also have.

If everyone is only concerned about venting their emotions, then how will the world be a peaceful day?

Instead of thinking about others to comfort you, learn to manage your emotions and seriously solve the problems you have to face.

Emotions are like the plague. If you don't control them at the beginning, they will hurt people and hurt you.

Gummi said, "Life's hardships are not meant to make you angry, but to make you more subdued."

Care too much about life's hardships, but repeatedly remind themselves how poorly they live, rather than look at the problem from a different perspective, the hardships as a stepping stone in life, under the hardships to hone a better version of themselves.

3、Rise to the occasion and do what you want to do

People live, live a day is a day.

Some people muddle through, some people are very self-disciplined ...... think of different paths, but do not know that making a choice, is destined to be different results.

You are in the mix, others in self-discipline, the last natural way to go is different.

Although the same is alive, others will live better than you.

As long as they will not regret it later, others say more gossip can not affect, but unfortunately, most people who see the results and will regret their choice, regret why they did not work hard, not live most of their lives but nothing.

If you don't want to have regrets in your life, it's better to fight and do what you want to do, even if you lose in the end, at least you tried.

Regardless of the final result, or the choice they make, they have to take responsibility, blame others, rather than blame themselves, blame themselves, rather than change the moment.