Try to run forward, just to live better

When you are young, most people have dreamed about how the future will be, and then succumbed to reality, few people can persevere, either give up midway or completely forget, treating that as a dream, and only dare to secretly think back when alone.

The mouth does not say, there are still regrets in the heart, especially after seeing the success of people who once had the same dream with their own more and more resentful, always can not help but think "what would have persisted at the beginning", but what is the use of just thinking, but it is just adding to the trouble.

Kahlil Gibran said, "There is a distance between a man's ideals and achievements that can be crossed only by his enthusiasm."

If you are not willing to fate so, you have to pay a hundred times the enthusiasm to work hard, to break through the gap between them, to achieve a better self.

Not for others, only for themselves, and strive to run forward.

1、Low starting point does not mean that life stops here

In Tara Westover's autobiographical novel "When you fly like a bird to your mountain", she mentions that she was born at the foot of Buck Peak in Idaho, a place where traffic was blocked and isolated from the world, and lived with her brothers and sisters like "savages" in her father's scrapyard.

If she hadn't been encouraged by her brother Tyler to go to college, she would have married early, had children, and become a midwife like her mother, repeating life of weakness and incompetence.

Fortunately, she did not resign herself to her fate, and when she knew that the only way to change her fate was to study, she put all her efforts into her studies, and finally got into Brigham Young University with excellent grades, moving step by step away from her original life path and towards "becoming better.

Although the process was painful, there was a lot to be gained from it. She made up for her poor background and low starting point with her willpower and hard work and turned her cocoon into a butterfly amid her ordeal to become a better person.

Low birth is not the problem, the biggest problem is that you do not dare to fight, and do not dare to take a critical step.

Most people who say they are confused and just have fun, they are not confused, just sober to see themselves sinking, even the courage to try to stand up, always want to have someone to pull themselves up.

But rely on others, only to make their own lives worse, and finally live as a parasite, abandoned only to wait for death.

In contrast, it is better to try to do what you want to do, use the time off to study hard, to study each point of knowledge thoroughly, the change will appear unknowingly.

Life is more than that, as long as you are willing to work hard, there is a better possibility.

2, dare to stand up, life can start over

"Failure is the mother of success" the truth that everyone knows, but not many can do.

Many times, we face failure, just drown in the immediate sadness, and completely forget to "learn from the experience of failure" this matter, the result will only repeat failure, it is difficult to get closer to success.

Even, some people are difficult to come out from failure, completely trapped in it, so life has been going backward.

He thinks he has been abandoned by life but does not think that he has given up on life.

In contrast to those who gave up, Kazuo Wada, the founder of Yaohan, after spending most of his life creating Japan's largest retail group, Yaohan, went bankrupt, he chose to regroup and start his own business again, saying to himself every day. "It's okay, everything will be fine".

At that time, few people went bankrupt, and few people dared to stand up again after hitting the bottom as Kazuo Wada did.

However, death is simple, having the courage to live is difficult.

Although there is more than one road in life, the road turns into pain, not many people can get through it.

So, have the courage to stand up, life will have a chance to start over.

As mentioned in "Silver Ghost": "The so-called tears, is a good thing that can wash away the pain and sorrow by flowing out. Through the saddest moment, people can move forward."

Don't be afraid, boldly go forward, life will have a "twist".

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Hope is originally indifferent to have, indifferent to have nothing. This is just like the road on the ground there is no road on the ground, walking more people, it will become a road.

When you feel that there is no road ahead, why not try to quiet your mind, wait for the mood to calm down, and then look at the road ahead?

You think there is no way to go but is obscured by the eyes, boldly step forward, the road will naturally appear.

When you let go of fear and retreat, no longer thinking about escape, you will find that there is nothing to be afraid of.

Run hard and your "better self" is not far away.