There are no good or bad roads in this world

There's only one road, and that's the one you're walking on.

Everyone in today's society is anxious. What you don't want, what you don't get, everyone struggles on various levels and becomes impatient with life.

But there is a difference between people in terms of being able to control this anxiety within a reasonable range, the basic life that you can control is fine, and the life that you can't control is a mess. To a large extent, control your anxiety and you control your life.

The reason is that he had decided not to look for a job before going on to take the postgraduate entrance exam. But suddenly, for some reason, he heard more and more advice from his senior students "don't aim too high and start slowly with a job". He thought they were right. I began to wonder if my "ready to learn more" mentality was unrealistic, so I began to worry.

A company employee who already has a stable job went on a trip to find out who he is during the trip. The reasons are as follows: stable jobs are introduced by his parents to acquaintances, not what he likes; However, I didn't know anything about the wine business I wanted to engage in, so I didn't dare to take the first step. As a result, I was very grumpy at work and finally offended my leader.

Even in love, also must be anxious to be able to do attention, it seems that everything without anxiety involved is not worth mentioning.

Even I sometimes get anxious: should I stick to what I'm good at, or should I try to open up new genres when the time is right? After all, my major is screenwriting, and now the IP is all over the place, should I get a piece of the pie? Do you work with the same company or do you work with several companies? The former is for moral reasons and long-term interests, the latter is to expand the channel. But at the same time, I know that all this anxiety is useless because, in the end, I have to choose one of these paths.

After a lot of anxious choices, I've learned that all anxiety is useless and that there is no such thing as deliberation on two similar things. There is no way to judge the future by imagination and speculation. The road is to come out of their own, is not inferred by referring to the appearance of others, others in a certain thing to do better, the method is better, for you, and will become another look, is equal to is a new road.

There is no better way, but there is the best way -- the one you choose and follow with determination, even if others don't think so, even if you doubt it yourself, but you keep moving forward.

There is only one life, and there is only one road to growth and life. There is no good or bad road, which is unique and needs to be chosen. Also because for this reason, everyone's life is accidental, and is determined by a choice.

I can't decide whether you need to take another year, or find a job to gain experience, which will be better, which will be more suitable for you?

No, no one can give you the answer, even you can't, the only way is you choose one of them, stick to go on, but you have to believe: the two roads are the same, it is no good or bad, there are thorns and flowers, choose to go straight forward, don't look back.

I can't persuade you to lose the job introduced by your acquaintance and pursue your beloved wine career. This is not the relationship between dream and reality, but only related to your choice. I don't think you will be happy and do better than this stable job if you do a wine career.

First, allow anxiety to exist, which is a normal human emotion; Second, understand that anxiety is useless, and only increases worry, harm, and no benefit, no choice must be under the guise of "thoughtful"; In the end, by any means, even if it is to draw lots, choose a path, kneeling to finish it. Drawing lots is not a scribble, it is also a way of choice because every road looks the same, it just gives you a heaven-arranged type of peace of mind.