The scale of living

With people, the relationship is close, we have to keep the scale: words can not be said, things can not be done at will, and people can not live at will.

Although the scale is like a "limit" that restricts everyone's behavior but think about it from another perspective, it is because of the existence of the scale, so that we can recognize whether their behavior is excessive, there is nowhere to do wrong.

A person can only guard himself if he keeps the scale.

1. Words should not be said casually

A good word is warm in three winters, a bad word is cold in June.

Although the mouth is long in its own body, the words can not be said, you never know how much damage they have on the mouth of a thoughtless sentence, sometimes to others.

A friend saved a lot of money to buy a brand-name bag, gleefully to the company to share with colleagues.

Most people are complimenting the bag looks good, and worth buying, but only one person said: "you the bag the look not in use, the key is not to keep the value, others who buy the bag will also appreciate, you will only continue to depreciate the value of this, you should ask me before you buy."

It is telling the truth, and there is no bad intention, but it still spoils the joy of others and makes the joy of buying your favorite bag much less.

What to say and what not to say is a learning experience that one can't easily learn, but one should try to "learn" from everyday life.

Stop half-heartedly when the words come to your mouth, and shut up when you feel that something is not right.

Good words, bad words, a thought, different results.

After that degree, not only the people around you will be hurt, but also yourself, and finally become a "loner".

Therefore, the words can not be said casually, keep the scale of speech, make a sincere friend, or open mouth offend people, and then good feelings will slowly alienate.

2. Things can not be arbitrary for

Live, who does not want to do as you wish?

But there are too many constraints in the world, some things you do not want to do can do, and some things you do not want to say can say.

The most important thing is that you have to do what you want to do.

If you indulge yourself, you will only hurt yourself.

The scale of the guard, to guard their own.

Many times, you know you can't do it, and the final result is often more serious than you think.

Instead of indulging yourself to do "silly things", you should learn to restrain yourself, keep the scale that you should have, and do what you should do.

"Silly things" can only be done once in a lifetime at most.

When you're young, you can still do silly things, but when you're older, you have to go back to the track you should be on, to do what you should do, keep your scale, struggle for life, and run around.

So, people who live, after all, should keep the scale, do not know that it is not for it, after all, capriciousness needs to pay the price.

3. People can not live at will

Days are passing day by day, no matter how you live, time is going.

Seems to have no impact, but is subtle.

How you mix the day, the day how to mix you.

When the salted fish lying flat life is indeed very cool, but lying flat happiness is the price to pay, consuming the original you so that you step by step to the "waste" into a "lamb to the slaughter", the face of life's vagaries without the power to fight back.

In the world, gain, and loss is the cause and effect, and are also a cycle, today's happiness, tomorrow needs to pay the price.

You think you can live at will, but do not know that any choice is "paid", what you get, will be correspondingly lost.

So that any choice to do need to think twice before acting, consider clearly how they want to live, so as not to live at will, over the degree, and finally let themselves suffer.

Not everyone is qualified to live at will, if there is no real material, living at will is not living a personal kind, but will live more and more degenerate.

The scale of living, is the guard or attack, the gain or loss, how you choose, the future of the road will be how to go.

The choice you make, you have to take responsibility for.

There is no free lunch, only a delicious trap that tempts you to fall into the abyss.

Whether you are a human being or do things, past the scale that should be, is equivalent to a foot in the trap, waiting for you is perhaps the endless abyss.