The loss of a loved one matures the soul...

... When a loved one withdraws from life unexpectedly, it becomes very difficult. Time seems to stop, and bereavement is so depressing that you can no longer watch what is happening around you, smell no more, see no color, just a sigh of pain…

Understanding what has shaken our lives does not make bereavement easier - who can weigh how much easier it is for a dear old to die, and when a young person with a lot of untapped opportunities, plans, hopes leaves voluntarily…

I dare say that maybe it is much harder in this case, because young people still have to live and live, but everything is determined by our relationship, attachment, communication. It wasn't easier for me when my dad died, even though life was like living, it seems I just have to accept that my parents will have to be buried sometime. Oh, wish it a year, another, third, let's get up to speed, even if I was sick, stuttering that it hurts everywhere…

Unfortunately, the human body is not a car, spare parts are not always available. Just like the time allotted to everyone in this space called life. It is much harder for parents to bury their children and the pain is immeasurable.

When we lose a young loved one, bereavement crushes the soul so much that we involuntarily seek answers - why, after all, does everything look good? ... I'm sorry, but the fairest and most comforting answer won't be. Sure, you could have spent more time together, talking, listening and helping, noticing something, but that is not a matter of regret now - we will not change anything, we will only make ourselves more sad, and will be pressured by an unjustified feeling of guilt. It doesn't have to be.

It is painful to realize that this was simply intended from above, that it should have happened, and only after a few stages of survival will we gradually recognize it. It won't ease all at once, but understanding, reconciliation ...

If we cannot change what is beyond our power, at least light a candle to help those who have left us and are watching from above. The flame will purify the soul and provide calm emotional energy. It should provide comforting, gradually emerging inner peace and bright warm thoughts as you remember them.

Who can disprove the idea that hospitals have heard more sincere prayers than all churches put together ... Everyone speaks to the angel guard as he or she can, wherever it is important and safe - most importantly, to do so sincerely. You don't cheat yourself and you don't have to feel bad because it's not easy either. All we have to do is keep up and gradually reconcile.

As time goes by, you may light up a little by adhering to the five laws of the universe: peace, confidence, gratitude, love, and inner bliss. Don't make yourself feel it, if the time is not right, the next day may be better for you to find peace within yourself.

And if it becomes very difficult, do not hurry to withdraw from life, understand that there will be no ticket back, only to leave your loved ones hurt. Instead, talk to someone, do something that will give them relief or the belief that you will endure sadness without all the wrong thoughts.

Let us live righteously and sincerely in our lives, because the past is gone and the future has not yet come ... Because nobody will give us a second life scenario, let's live here and now. With light in the soul, faith in yourself and love for your loved ones.