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The Last Hug I Remember

A daughter’s goodbye that still echoes in her heart

By IMONPublished 8 months ago 3 min read

I still remember the way her arms felt around me — warm, soft, and safe. That hug was the last one I ever got from my mother. I didn’t know then that it would be our final moment together. But now, years later, it still lives inside me like a small, glowing light.

It was a cloudy Sunday morning. The kind of morning where the sky looks like it’s holding back tears. I was running late. My bags were packed for college, and my mother stood near the front door, her smile quiet and a little sad.

“Come here,” she said, holding out her arms.

I was in a hurry. My friends were waiting outside in the car. I gave her a quick hug — not too tight, not too long — just enough to say goodbye. But something in her held on a little longer. She whispered, “Take care of yourself. Don’t forget to eat, and call me when you get there.”

I rolled my eyes, laughed, and said, “Yes, Mom. You always say that.”

She smiled, but I saw something in her eyes. Something I didn’t understand at the time. It looked like fear. Or maybe it was just love.

That was the last hug I remember.

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College was exciting. New friends, new places, freedom. I called home less often than I should have. My mom would message me now and then — pictures of our dog, reminders to wear warm clothes, recipes she thought I’d like. I replied with short texts: “Thanks!” “LOL.” “Busy now. Talk later.”

She never complained. She just kept loving me the way only a mother can — quietly, patiently, always.

Then one day, I got a call.

It was my father. His voice was shaking. “She collapsed. They’re taking her to the hospital.”

My world stopped.

By the time I reached home, it was too late. My mom had passed away in her sleep. A silent goodbye. No warning. No second chance.

I remember standing in her room, staring at her bed, her favorite sweater still hanging on the chair. Everything smelled like her — lavender and love.

I fell to my knees and cried.

And then, out of nowhere, I remembered that last hug. The way she had held me. The way she didn’t want to let go. I think now she must have known something. Maybe not in her mind, but in her heart.

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Grief is a strange thing. At first, it crushed me. I couldn’t sleep. Couldn’t eat. I kept wishing for one more phone call, one more message, one more hug.

But slowly, I started noticing small signs.

Her favorite song would play on the radio when I was thinking about her. A white butterfly would land on my window every morning. Her voice would echo in my head when I skipped meals: “Don’t forget to eat.”

I started writing letters to her. I’d sit in the park with a notebook and pour out my thoughts.

“Hi Mom, I made pancakes today. They weren’t as good as yours.”

“Mom, I wore that sweater you gave me. It still smells like you.”

“Mom, I miss you so much it hurts.”

It didn’t bring her back. But it brought me closer to her memory.

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One year after she passed, I went back home. My dad had kept her room the same. I walked in and sat on her bed. That’s when I saw the note.

It was inside her favorite book, underlined in her handwriting:

“One day, you’ll understand the meaning of a hug. It’s more than just arms around you. It’s a moment that lasts forever.”

Tears ran down my face.

That was her gift to me. That last hug wasn’t short or forgettable. It was the one thing she gave me that I still carry — in my heart, in my bones, in the way I hug others now.

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Today, whenever I hug someone I love, I hold on a little longer. I say, “I love you” out loud. I don’t wait for the perfect time. Because sometimes, there’s no next time.

Life moves fast. But love — real love — it stays.

And the last hug I remember?

It still hugs me back.

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Author's Note:

If you’ve lost someone you love, know that you are not alone. Grief doesn’t go away, but love doesn’t either. Let’s remember to hug a little tighter, speak a little kinder, and never leave without saying “I love you.”

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