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"Opportunities don't happen. You create them," and other quotes to propel you forward.
Being Double-Minded or Indecisive: A Deep Psychological and Spiritual Struggle
Being Double-Minded or Indecisive: A Deep Psychological and Spiritual Struggle You’ve raised a very important and profound issue that affects many people—being double-minded, not being able to make a decision, and later regretting it. In psychological terms, this state is often referred to as "decision paralysis" or "ambivalence." It can deeply affect a person’s confidence, emotions, and mental peace.
By Ikram Ullah7 months ago in Motivation
When love starts to cost your peace, it’s no longer healthy
We’re taught to believe that love is sacrifice, that if we care enough, we’ll endure anything. But when love becomes a place where your nervous system is constantly on edge - where you’re always overthinking, walking on eggshells, or shrinking to stay connected - it stops being love and starts becoming survival. True love doesn’t ask you to abandon yourself for connection. It holds space for both intimacy and inner calm. Because when love costs your peace, it’s not a relationship - it’s a wound.
By Olena 7 months ago in Motivation
Why you still feel alone around people – emotional availability vs. physical presence
There’s a specific kind of loneliness that hits differently: being surrounded by people, yet feeling completely invisible. You laugh, talk, even go through the motions - but something’s missing. You don’t feel met. You don’t feel known. This kind of emptiness stems not from physical absence but from emotional disconnection. Emotional availability - the ability to be present, engaged, and attuned - is what creates true connection. Without it, even the closest relationships can feel hollow.
By Olena 7 months ago in Motivation
Not cold, just guarded – how past wounds shape present walls
It’s easy to label someone as “cold,” “emotionally unavailable,” or “hard to read.” But often, what looks like detachment is actually self-protection. The walls people build aren’t signs of apathy - they’re evidence of pain. Pain that was once ignored, dismissed, or mishandled. When someone appears guarded, it’s not always because they don’t feel. Sometimes, it’s because they’ve felt too much - with no safe place to hold it.
By Olena 7 months ago in Motivation
Becoming who you’re meant to be – letting go of who you had to be
We all build masks. Sometimes out of necessity. Sometimes out of pain. We learn how to shrink ourselves, play roles, or stay small to keep peace, avoid shame, or meet others’ expectations. But eventually, the version of you that was shaped to survive becomes the very thing that stands in the way of the version of you that’s meant to thrive. Becoming who you’re meant to be isn’t about adding more - it’s about gently releasing what was never yours to carry in the first place.
By Olena 7 months ago in Motivation
The Secret Behind Successful Relationships. Content Warning.
We often believe that relationships succeed because of blood ties, shared childhoods, or years of staying in touch. But experience proves otherwise. Sometimes, even the closest people drift apart, and total strangers can become our greatest support.
By Saaya Gsm7 months ago in Motivation
Mr Bean's golden advice to the world
Mr. Bean’s Silent Wisdom: A Story of Laughter and Life In a quiet corner of London, tucked away in a modest flat above a bakery, lived a peculiar man known to the world simply as Mr. Bean. With his brown tweed jacket, red tie, and ever-curious expressions, Mr. Bean was known not for what he said—but for what he did. His world was silent, yet full of meaning. One might mistake him for a fool, but hidden behind those mischievous eyes was a man who understood life in ways many could not.
By Akif Pathan7 months ago in Motivation
“Why am I so sensitive?” - a question many deep-feeling souls ask, not realizing their sensitivity is both a gift and a weight.
If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much,” cried over something others brushed off, or felt emotionally exhausted after being around people, you’re not alone. Sensitivity is often labeled as weakness in a world that rewards toughness. But what if your deep feelings weren’t something to fix, but something to understand? In this post, we’ll explore the quiet strength, hidden struggles, and profound beauty that come with being a highly sensitive person - and how to honor your nature without being overwhelmed by it.
By Olena 7 months ago in Motivation
"She Left Me a Note—and Then Disappeared"
I found the note on a Thursday morning. It was a day like any other, one of those sleepy, half-dressed moments where the kettle hums and the world hasn’t quite opened its eyes yet. I stumbled into the kitchen, expecting to find her by the window with that distant look she always wore in the mornings—half in this world, half in a memory I couldn’t reach. But she wasn’t there.
By Jawad Khan7 months ago in Motivation
