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Self Improvement and Motivation For Success

Exercise even for at least 10 minutes a day. It would refresh you and you’ll

feel more energized.

Eat healthy food so that you have the energy to spend time with your family

and also to work productively.

Adopt a hobby that you can pursue with your family or friends. This would

keep your mind off work and also make you much more energized. Hobbies

are also quite effective to alleviate stress so you can use a good hobby and

make use of it.

In community:

Spend some quality time in your community. Devote some voluntary time in

community work so that you can devote your money, education and time to

social work. This would enhance your satisfaction level and also bring you a

sense of social responsibility. You can also generate funds, help in arranging

corporate social responsibilities and use your maximum capacity to serve for

your community.

You can also participate in your children’s school events and parental

societies in order to know what your child is learning at school. Parental

groups are also involved at organizing functions and social tasks for the

school kids. This would not only help you manage your time, but also

inculcate such social and extracurricular habits in your children.

Self Improvement and Motivation For Success

What make a person Unsuccessful?

There have been many articles written on how to be successful, but very few of them cite

about the factors that make you unsuccessful! In order to be successful, there are certain

factors that you definitely have to avoid so as to ensure success. Some of these elements

are:

False beliefs: Any incorrect idea that you have about something is a false belief. The

best element for success is to let go of false beliefs by getting over them and moving

ahead. A small false belief such as being unlucky or not able to find a job should not

stop you from looking for a job. To get over false beliefs, one has to get out of their

comfort zone and accept challenges so that they can overcome their false beliefs and

move on towards newer horizons.

External control: A particular way of thinking which is strongly associated with being

unsuccessful is blaming everything to external factors. For instance, when one

doesn’t perform well in an exam, they blame their teacher or the environment around

them. Whereas, successful people revert to their internal locus of control where they

believe that they are in control of everything. They strengthen themselves internally

so that they can face whatever challenges life throws at them.

Persistence and perseverance: Successful people tend to be persistent in life. They

tend to continue their hard work until they achieve what they want. Losing hope

quickly are the signs of the unsuccessful people who don’t stand up after they fail. So

be strong and persistent if you wish to succeed.

Rigidity: Unsuccessful people are quite rigid. They tend to stick to their obsolete

ways and do not like adapting to changing situations. In this dynamic world, one

needs to be highly flexible in order to be successful. You need to adapt to situations

accordingly, take hardships and try different methods if one fails.

Improper planning: Being planned for your future would guarantee you success. If

you have your own plans, you will maintain your focus and head in the correct

dimension. Those who are unsuccessful do not plan or even if they do, their plans are

incomplete. Therefore, you need to be planned else you’ll be swept by those around

you.

Lack of self confidence: Ever wondered why the unsuccessful ones are always left

behind? It’s all because of the fact that they lack the confidence of presenting their

ideas in front of the bosses. You should speak up, be creative and give ideas so that

the people around you realize that you are confident.

Reminiscing about lack of resources: A lot of unsuccessful ones stay behind just

because they think that they don’t have the money or the resources to do things. Why

stay behind? If you are affirmative that you have to be successful, you’ll have to do

things without resources.

Fears: These are not the fears of the dark or the height, but rather these are the fears

which hinder your abilities to leap ahead towards success. Although opposite, the fear

of success or failure can both hinder your way towards being successful so overcome

your fears and start moving ahead!