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Secret Obsession

Key to a man’s heart

By Fairul NizamPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
Secret Obsession
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More than love, more than money, even more than sex.

And the craziest part is this one secret obsession holds the key to winning a man’s love, attention, and total devotion for LIFE but not one woman in a thousand even knows it exists!

And those that do almost never share it with another soul.

After 12 years of working with thousands of amazing women as a relationship coach, I’ve witnessed the secret male obsession to be the key to a man’s heart.

Because once you understand it, you’ll be able to make the man of your choice feel a burning desire for you that’s so powerful that you’ll literally become the most important person in his life.

The person he thinks about all day long.

There’s something every man is secretly obsessed with, more than love, money, even more than sex!

And you’ll also hear the real-life stories of women who used this same secret obsession to create the deepest love of their lives, all from seemingly “hopeless” situations and how you too can create the love you deserve.

Because no matter how bad your situation seems right now…

· Even if you’re worried your man is losing interest after getting intimate with him too soon…

· Even if you’ve given up hope that your man will ever commit to you…

· And even if he’s been completely ignoring your calls and texts

…it doesn’t matter.

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Because the moment you flip this secret trigger in a man’s heart (a trigger so secret that 99% of women and men don’t even know it exists) he’ll feel a surge of desire for you that goes far beyond physical attraction… and makes him see you in a whole new light.

Without even realizing it, he’ll start to picture you in his life and every other woman, past and present, will fade from his mind.

Because when you tap into a man’s most primal, inner desire, you literally become his OBSESSION.

And even though he’s starting to feel the deepest love connection of his life, he won’t know why…

Because this secret flies completely under his radar.

“The Hero Instinct”.

And I now believe it’s the biggest secret to becoming a man’s deepest passion and priority in life.

In fact, it doesn’t matter how “in love” or “infatuated” a man is. If the woman he’s with doesn’t bring out his Hero Instinct, he’ll always feel like something important is missing and he’ll eventually seek out a woman who knows this secret.

On the other hand, when you know how to trigger a man’s Hero Instinct, his heart will be yours, and yours alone. And he’ll go to the ends of the Earth to make you happy.

How can this be possible?

It’s because the Hero Instinct is a BIOLOGICAL DRIVE just like hunger, thirst, and sex. But once this drive is triggered it becomes more powerful than all 3 combined. which makes it virtually impossible for him to ignore.

And in a few minutes you’ll see how you can use a “Secret Signal” I discovered to flip on a man’s Hero Instinct without him even noticing.

And I should warn you… When you use this secret signal on a man for the first time, get ready… Because he’ll suddenly find everything about you to be more alluring and enticing than any other woman on his radar.

But first, the best way for you to understand how you can use The Hero Instinct is to see how it worked for a real woman.

I’d like you to meet my friend Rachel.

She’s one of my favorite clients.

If you met her, I bet you’d be fast friends from the start, because that’s how she is with everyone.

But for some strange reason, she always has the worst luck in her search for love.

One night, I got a call just as I was closing up the office to head home. It was Rachel. I recognized it right away… the catch in her throat… the hurt in her voice.

I rushed to meet her at the Starbucks around the corner from my office.

From the running eyeliner and the red, puffy eyes, it was obvious it was really bad this time.

She told me about Mike. Three months ago she was smitten and in love.

They’d met at her best friend’s wedding and instantly hit it off. He did everything right. He surprised her with lunch at work. He called her literally every night. And he planned out fun and romantic dates.

And Rachel felt like she’d finally found the love she had wanted so badly for so long.

That was until three months later… When something happened that every woman dreads…

Rachel first noticed the signs in Mike’s voice.

He was suddenly so quiet and distant and Rachel didn’t know why, or what she had done wrong.

Before, they were almost inseparable. You could practically feel the sparks fly between them.

But now… the surprise “drop-ins” had disappeared. He no longer called at the end of the night.

Anytime she texted him he would respond hours later with short, one-word replies.

“I’ve realized that I won’t be happy without you in my life.”

He never seemed more sure of anything. She immediately felt the relationship had changed.

And it had.

She began to see glimpses of a deeper side of Mike. He was so one secret signal much warmer and more open.

And he seemed healthier and happier, too. Before long, they were deeply in love again.

And to think, it all started with that in Rachel’s 12-word text message.

Now, if you’re going through something like Rachel was, I want you to know: it’s not your fault.

It’s not something you did or didn’t do.

Because a man’s heart will always be elusive until you understand what drives him on a primal, instinctive level and how the subtle things you say and do deeply affect him.

And that all comes down to understanding his Hero Instinct.

By now you’re probably wondering what exactly IS the Hero Instinct… right?

Well, on the surface it’s a deep, biological drive inside every man to feel needed.

In other words,

Men are secretly OBSESSED with feeling irreplaceable… like they’re the only man for the job.

But it’s so much deeper than that.

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