People who mix well, often have "too much"
The reason for the success
01、The first sentence of the volume
Life is like a long voyage, want to reach the other side of happiness, depends on how individuals harness the fate of the ship.
Mr. Nan Huaijin said: "The real cultivation is not on the mountain, not in the temple, but the society. Each of us is living in practice and practice in life."
In this life, everyone, we are constantly pursuing a better life.
People who live well are good at integrating all the resources in their hands so that they can meet better opportunities and go to the top of their lives.
And those who do not live well, often not their ability is not enough. But, not willing to seriously study, not operate properly, and even think about taking shortcuts, and ultimately will not catch the opportunity.
The gap between people, starting from themselves.
A person with, a really good life, often has too much.
02, knowledge of people's vision, good at making friends with talented people
A really good life of people, often good at knowing people.
Good at knowing people, and knowing how to manage their network.
The people who have a good time, good at knowing people, with the company of capable people. The people who have the vision to know people, always at a glance can see the talent of others, good at appreciating others.
People should recognize themselves, and should also know how to know people.
A good network not only achieves their own business but also, can achieve others.
On the road of life, if you want the mutual benefit and a win-win, it is important to find the right partner. Making friends with better people will allow them to grow faster, but also to harvest more achievements.
03、Good at investing in yourself and improving your value
On the road of life, the best investment is to invest in yourself.
Caterpillar before becoming a butterfly needs to go through a long process of metamorphosis.
Spit silk into a cocoon, and then try to break through the cocoon, stretching out the wings, to truly metamorphosis.
People are the same. Continuously learn a variety of knowledge, armed with their brains, broaden their thinking, and increase the number of ways to solve problems. Continuously become strong, to break through the more serious challenges.
Those who learn to invest in themselves will make themselves better and better.
People who are good at investing are always able to resist all kinds of hardships and setbacks and tolerate loneliness.
When a person, is willing to put in the hard work to refine themselves, fly higher and farther, achieve better results, and keep a prosperous life.
People who know how to invest in themselves tend to have higher requirements for themselves. Know how to exercise their will, be strong inside, manage their words and actions, learn more and improve their skills.
This life of a person is a process of constantly improving and shaping oneself.
Relying on anyone is not as good as relying on yourself.
Only their ability is stronger, to attract more excellent people to come, willing to work together to plot a career and continue to move forward.
04、Good at "concessions" to increase opportunities for cooperation
The speed of a person to make money, can not catch up with the speed of the team to make money.
Psychologist Wu Zhihong's teacher said: "A person's happiness, is based on social relationships."
Life on the road, alone, is suitable for settling down self. If you want to achieve a career, the best way is to learn to seize the opportunity to learn to "cooperate".
People who are good at "cooperation" are generous and good at "giving profit".
In cooperation, willing to give each other higher pay, so that they have a better working environment, more bonuses, can reap a lot of surprises.
Willing to listen to the opinions of team members and give more people sincere care.
People who are good at "giving profit" have a big heart, have far-sightedness, do not care about the immediate benefits, and have the spirit of "altruism".
The more you know how to "give" people, the easier it is to increase cooperation opportunities for themselves, to get more "profit".
People who have a good time, know how to cooperate with others to bring out their greater potential. At the same time, use the power of the team to achieve better results and usher in greater success.
05、Summary
A person, the reason for success, can not be separated from their efforts.
On the road of life, if you want to be on high, get more resources, and see better scenery, you have to know how to make friends with excellent people. And from the excellent people, learn more qualities.
On the road of life, we can go forward together and learn from each other, so that we can meet each other and better ourselves.
At the same time, you can't stop learning, whether it's being a person or professional knowledge, you have to keep accumulating and progressing. Only by working hard can we have a stronger possibility to be in the position we want and stand firm.
Know how to cooperate with others, be sincere, and kind, and give others room.
Learning to "give up", not in the small calculations is to pave the way for their future. Be a human being, some atmosphere, to gain more.
If you want to harvest what kind of life, please rely on your own to fight.
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When I was 17, I met a man who delivered newspapers in the rain. Not in a casual, half-hearted way—but fully committed, every single morning. He would leave his house before sunrise, his coat soaked, shoes falling apart, and the wind cutting through him like a knife. Yet, despite the cold and wet, he smiled at everyone on his route. To a teenager like me, it was both confusing and inspiring. I remember the first time I saw him struggle with a bundle of papers that seemed almost too heavy for him. He slipped on the wet pavement, muttered something under his breath, and kept walking. When he reached the next house, he knocked on the door, handed over the paper, and smiled as the door closed. That smile was strange to me—it wasn’t pride or satisfaction, it was… calm. Almost peaceful. Curious, I approached him one morning. “Why don’t you take a day off when it’s so hard?” I asked, shivering in my hoodie as the rain soaked me through. He laughed, a deep, gravelly sound that didn’t sound annoyed, only knowing. “Son, nobody cares about today,” he said, shaking his head. “What matters is tomorrow. You build your life the same way: one small effort, every day, even when nobody notices.” At the time, I didn’t understand. My life felt urgent, like it had to explode with success immediately. I was chasing big ideas, jumping from project to project, leaving most half-finished. I thought motivation was everything—without the spark of inspiration, nothing mattered. The idea of showing up every single day, even when tired, even when bored, even when invisible, felt almost insane. I watched him for weeks. Rain or shine, he was there. I started noticing small details I hadn’t seen before—the careful folding of the papers, the way he adjusted his wet coat to protect the bundle, the extra minute he took to smile at a child running out to grab the paper. Every morning, the same ritual. Every morning, the same effort. And yet, nobody cheered. Nobody noticed. Years passed. I went to college, chasing my own “big dreams,” my own versions of instant success. I started businesses, abandoned them; learned new skills, stopped halfway; made promises to myself I couldn’t keep. I told myself I was working toward greatness, but mostly, I was chasing the idea of success, not the work itself. Motivation was my fuel, and when it ran out, I stopped moving. Meanwhile, the memory of that man stayed with me. The quiet diligence, the smile in the pouring rain. I didn’t realize it at the time, but he had already taught me the most important lesson: consistency matters more than talent, and persistence matters more than inspiration. Years later, I found myself struggling. A career path crumbled beneath me, a relationship ended badly, and my confidence had hit rock bottom. I remembered the man with the newspapers. 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What had seemed like meaningless, invisible effort had quietly transformed my life. That man never became famous. He never went viral. He had no thousands of followers, no awards, no recognition. But every paper he delivered, every smile he shared, every step he took in the rain—it all mattered. Each day of consistent effort built a life he owned completely, a life he could be proud of. I realized then that success is not a moment. It is not a sudden flash of recognition or a single lucky opportunity. Success is the sum of the quiet, consistent decisions we make when no one is watching. It’s the choice to wake up when it’s easier to sleep. It’s the decision to work when it’s easier to scroll on your phone. It’s the effort we put in when the world doesn’t applaud. And the truth is simple: showing up every day is more powerful than talent, motivation, or luck. Talent fades. Motivation fluctuates. But showing up—every single day, rain or shine—creates results you cannot imagine. Just like the man in the rain, your efforts may not be recognized immediately. People may overlook them, circumstances may feel unfair, progress may seem invisible. But over time, the cumulative effect of your daily effort will speak for itself. One day, the world will notice. One day, your consistency will transform your life. So, start today. Don’t wait for motivation. Don’t wait for inspiration. Show up. Every day. One small effort. One action. One step at a time. Let your grind be louder than your excuses. Because the man who never missed a day wasn’t special. He was ordinary. But through persistence, he became unstoppable. And so can you.
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