Live, is the process of knowing yourself

The Godfather wrote: "Spend a second to see through the essence of things, and spend a lifetime also can not see the essence of people, is destined to be a very different fate."

The same road to start, some people have long arrived, some people are still lost, it seems that the difference is the time, but lost in the beginning, the former has long seen, the latter is still confused.

Many times, confused for too long, the gap opened up.

There is time to be confused, it is better to improve the vision, better understanding of their own, and understand their strengths and weaknesses in which, to figure out what path they want to take.

Once people recognize themselves, they can more clearly understand themselves and take the road of life that belongs to them.

1. Recognize the shortcomings, deep plowing themselves

Living is the process of knowing oneself.

There are advantages and disadvantages, but most people only want to see their advantages and ignore the existence of shortcomings.

Thinking that ignoring can be treated as non-existent, but do not know that the "wrong" will leave hidden problems, may one day break out.

Therefore, they face their shortcomings, rather than pretend not to see them, rather than through their efforts to make up for the shortcomings.

There is no need to hide because of shortcomings, sometimes hidden but more likely to be exposed, rather than open to face.

In the realization of their shortcomings, timely awakening, adjust the state, and actively respond, through efforts to correct the existence of deficiencies.

There are always people who are better than you, so instead of being jealous of others, you should spend more time improving yourself.

Only by cultivating yourself deeply can you achieve a better you.

If you work hard enough, your weaknesses can become strengths and your weaknesses can become strengths, and you can become better and better.

2. Know self-discipline, live a daily routine

Although people have their aspirations, each has its way of living, but those who can not want to become better, just can not resolve to force themselves.

I always think that maybe there are other opportunities, so I don't have to live so hard, but I don't think that the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared, and if you keep waiting, you will only get failure.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.

Every difficult moment is a turning point in fate, and if you try to get through it, you will be able to make the best of it.

Many times, the self-discipline that seems to be difficult is a shortcut to life, and only when you get through it can you see a better you.

If you give up efforts because of a moment of suffering, happy for a while, but will regret a lifetime, to know that today's cause and tomorrow's fruit, everything has been foretold.

So, live to learn to force yourself, to do those things that are useful to you but difficult to persist, to achieve a better you.

Not necessarily there will be results, but the effort will have hope, so that life is more than one choice, not a road to black.

3. Recognize emotions and quiet the mind

Most of the pain in life stems from the fact that you can't get through it.

Not how difficult the problem is, but you can't get over it, emotions play a role in affecting normal judgment and magnifying the difficulty of solving the problem.

Instead of being affected by emotions to make a wrong judgment, it is better to quietly look at the problem objectively.

To know that everything is relative, there are good and bad, and as long as it is handled properly, bad things can also become good.

Like emotions, when out of control will hurt themselves and others, but attention to control is not lost as a way to promote and force themselves to work hard to improve the momentum.

However, the matter of emotions should not be blocked, only the appropriate release, so as not to stifle themselves and make irreparable things.

Once you can't control it, you will be manipulated by it.

In the face of uncontrollable emotions, learn to quiet the mind, with a normal heart, slowly out of the emotional bondage, and control of their own lives.