Life gets better, starting with the feet on the ground
The first thing you need to do is to get to know your family. We need to do everything one thing at a time

Although the only person who knows himself best is himself, but how many can know themselves on the long road of life?
Most people see the good side of themselves, habitually ignore their problems, and think of ignored as non-existent, but do not know that there are "mistakes" that will leave hidden problems.
The short-term impact is not big, but over time will eventually become a "stumbling block" in life.
Be a human being, ignorant for life, why not start now to know yourself, do what you want to do, take the road you want to take, and achieve a better you?
1、Find shortcomings, improve yourself
People, there are advantages, there are also shortcomings.
Some people are close to perfection, and some people are full of flaws.
Seems to be the extremes of excellence and shortcomings, but it is difficult to do the real extremes, there are no real perfect people, and there are no meritless people.
A person has shortcomings, there is time to chagrin, why not spend more time to correct, only to strive to improve themselves, to achieve a better version of themselves?
No one's perfection is born, most of them rely on the acquired efforts to promote.
Pay careful attention to the excellent people around you, you will find that they live more hard compared to ordinary people, in the face of their shortcomings, the idea is not to escape, but to try to correct themselves.
Although "no one is perfect, no gold is perfect", only dare to pursue perfection, to make yourself better.
Not to your addictive pursuit of perfection, but your pursuit of perfection on the road, through down-to-earth efforts to achieve a better self.
2、Be careful with what you say and do and discipline yourself
Although the mouth is growing on its own, the words are not allowed to talk nonsense.
When I was young, I could say that I was a child, but when I grew up, I didn't know what to say, but I was easily offended.
Those "toxic" people in life, knowing that they are straightforward, the opening will offend people, but still, careless nonsense will only make fewer and fewer friends around.
Do not think that real friends can understand your poisonous tongue, know that even if you know you are not intentionally sarcastic, but hurtful words to hear more, and ultimately easy to be hurt, and finally only forced to choose to leave.
Therefore, along with the growth of age, some words should not be said do not say.
Not everyone can tolerate you like family members, instead of continuing to indulge themselves, why not learn to restrain themselves?
And when it comes to restraining yourself, restraining not only your mouth but also your daily behavior.
Other people's business has nothing to do with you, do not meddle, even if it is a close friend, and will not like others to interfere with their own business.
As mentioned in "The Shadow Thief", "You can't interfere with other people's lives, even if it's for their good."
If you have time to meddle, it is better to take care of your side of things, otherwise, you will only let the good intentions do bad things, the worse the relationship.
The second half of life, to learn to be careful what you say and restrain yourself, so that you should shut up when you shut up, will not be nosy to offend people.
3, down-to-earth, do a better version of yourself
A good life, not out of thought, but out of the walk.
Hope to buy a lottery ticket-style overnight riches, or a novel plot to reverse life, rather than spend more time on improving themselves.
Only by making yourself better can you have the strength to have a better future.
Although the future is unpredictable, as long as you are good enough, then the road is difficult to get through.
In the current self, there may be a lot of deficiencies, but step by step, but down-to-earth step by step, you can eventually achieve a better self.
Life is not only in the present but also in the future.
The harder you work, the luckier you will be.
As long as you do not give up on yourself, then you have the opportunity to achieve a better self.
Even if you are in the doldrums, there will be tomorrow.
The road ahead is accompanied by hardships and dangers, but it also brings twists and turns, allowing life to gain more options.
Life gets better, starting with your feet on the ground.



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