The life of self-help
Don't think of what you don't want, or you will get it. Think about what you want, and you will get it. In fact, in life, we must always pay attention to what we want, not always pay attention to what we fear! Like the dream, remember not to be dominated by dreams; Good at planning, remember that fantasy can not achieve the goal; People who have the spirit of doing, remember that choosing the right direction is more important than working hard. Don't think you can just build a city and settle down; Do not think that if you sow, you will reap; Don't think you can conquer by reaching the top; Don't think that if you stop someone's mouth, what you hear is praise! Think of yourself as a tree, and always have been blown down by the wind sorrow; Take yourself as a seedling, will always enjoy the sun and rain. Qing qing, then grow up; When ripe, it rots! Life should pursue four degrees of space: width, depth, heat, speed; Work should form five dynamic personality: initiative, action, vivid, dynamic, moving; Life must be clear about a concept: only shorten the successful days and months, can prolong the time of enjoyment! Everyone has two doors: a home, a place to grow up; One is the heart door, the place of success. If you drive out the little man in the door, you will awaken the giant in your heart! First grow out of the eyebrows, not as long as the beard long; The ears born first are not as long as the horns born last. Wisdom is not in the age, the generation is not high, the later is often in the top. Not the street is expensive, but you have no money in your pocket; It's not that you don't have money in your mouth, but that you haven't found an opportunity to make money. It's not that you don't have the opportunity to make money, but you don't have the idea of getting rich in your head! It means that you have no intention of making money on your own. When you hold on to something, maybe you will only have this thing forever. If you are willing to let go, you will have other choices. Old ideas do not give up, new ideas are difficult to produce! Eight times a day in the mirror, is not equal to beautiful appearance; Talking empty words nine times a day is not a man of action. Good at boasting, is wearing a veil! There is a dilemma in this world: one is to change others, the other is to change yourself. Ask others very painful, that change oneself should be very happy. To change others, change yourself first! There are many difficulties in the world, but the most difficult thing is two things: one is to put the money in other people's pockets into their own pockets. The second is to put your own thoughts into someone else's head! Doubt is the beginning of pain, doubt is the beginning of happiness. Doubt can be fixed, proof is more important, and its long time doubt, not such as a short time to prove! Hit the fate with the soul, with ideas beyond the dream. It doesn't matter what you do now, it matters what you do in the future. In order to change the future of life, first change the concept of now! People worry, there must be near worry, worry about not far, the worry is to. Because of more hidden in hidden micro, and hair in the sudden. Wise men avoid invisible, bright foresight in not sprout! The most difficult to open is the heart door, the most difficult road is the heart, the most sad bridge is the heart bridge, the most difficult to adjust the mentality. The hardest project in the world is to transform a man's inner world! True love is to accept, not to endure; Is support, not support; Condolences, not questions; True love, to thank also want to apologize. Be considerate and considerate. To admit a mistake, or to correct it; True love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking together along the same side. Love is not about finding a perfect person. Instead, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes. In life, some people come and go, some people go and come back, some people are close, some people are far away, some people pass by, some people walk all the way. Maybe we meet at the end of two roads, walk together for some distance, and say goodbye at the next fork in the road. In any case, will inevitably end the sad. Far in the end of the world of friends: perhaps is far too far to greet, but also thank you for having a companion. No matter what your income is, divide it into five parts: invest more in your body so it always works; Invest in networking and expand your network; Increase your investment in learning and strengthen your self-confidence; Increase investment in tourism and broaden your knowledge; Increase your investment in the future and increase your earnings. With good planning and implementation, you will find that your life will gradually have a large surplus. In the journey of life, there are always people coming and leaving. When the new name becomes the old name, when the old name gradually blurred, it is the end of one story and the beginning of another story. In the constant encounter and staggered, finally understand: the people around can only accompany their own through or near or far, but not with their own life; Accompany life is their own name and those or clear or vague name brought by the moving. There are always some people around, you see him all day happy, frank like a child, everyone envy him; In fact, where do you know: before a second person also sadly shed tears after him, after a second person immediately filled with a bright smile. In fact, they do not have the ability to be alone. When people are quiet at night, they always sit in front of the window to meditate on the suffering of frustration. They are like sunflowers, always bright to the front of the sun, in the back of the light is not sad deep. On the way of life, some are inescapable, such as fate; Some are impossible to change, such as love; Some are indelible, like memories; Some are hard to put aside, like love... And its passive bear, not as brave to face; With birds under the eaves, as wind and rain; It is better to erupt in strife than to be alone in silence... The more difficult the road, the greater the obstacles, the more risks, as long as the past, life will be more wonderful. You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the fact, but you can change the attitude; You can't change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything well, but you can do everything with your heart; You can't extend the length of your life, but you can decide the width of it. Charming woman: 1, good at finding the beauty in life. 2. Develop the habit of reading books. 3, have taste. 4. Surround yourself with thoughtful people. 5. Stay away from frothy idol shows. 6, learn patience and tolerance. 7. Develop a healthy attitude and pay attention to your body. 8, leave any man, will live very well. 9. With the opportunity of financial management, learn investment and management. 10, respect the feelings, cherish the fate. Fools seek happiness far away, wise men cultivate happiness near themselves. There is happiness in every detail of life, it's just whether you feel it or not. A happy man finds something in everything and everyone that makes him happy, and that happiness expands, inspires and influences those around him. 1. The most important thing is the heart of today; 2, don't always with their own hard; 3, with the heart to do what they should do; 4. Don't worry too much about others' evaluation; 5, everyone has his own way of life; 6, like their own will embrace life; 7, do not blindly please others; 8, wood has become a boat will follow its nature; 9. Let go of your worries for a while; 10, their sense of happiness is happiness. There is no forever fate, there is no forever life, what we can have, may just be an ordinary life. However, because of you, life is completely different, no oath, no commitment, we only need to follow the love, with eyes as the medium, confirm the agreement on the Sansheng stone, then hold hands, do not have to grip, but never relax, to design their own love program, to deduce a classic eternal. The reason why we are tired is that we often wander between insisting and giving up. The reason why we will worry, is that memory is too good, the remember, should not remember will stay in memory. The reason why we will suffer, is the pursuit of too much. The reason why we are not happy is that we care too much, not that we have too little, but that we care too much. 10 Qualities Women are attracted to in men: 1. Authenticity; 2. 2. Deep; 3. The mind; 4. Dare to; 5. Grace; 6. Clever; 7. A sense of humor; 8. Into take; 9. Romantic; 10. The risk. 10 things men find attractive about women: 1. 2. Intellectual; 3. In laymen; 4. The self-restraint; 5. Hazy; 6. Small gestures; 7. Diligent in family affairs; 8. The skin white; 9. Sexy attire; 10. Sweet atmosphere. Being misunderstood when you can smile slightly, this is a kind of accomplishment; When wronged can calm smile, this is a kind of magnanimity; When losing can happy smile, this is a kind of open-minded; Helpless when can philosophical smile, this is a state; Crisis can calm smile, this is a kind of atmosphere; When being scorned can calm smile, this is a kind of confidence; Lovelorn can gently smile, this is a kind of free and easy. A page in the past, can not turn don't turn, turn down the dust will be lost in the eyes. Some people can not say where good, but who can not replace! Those who used to say never separate, already scattered in the end of the world. Pick up the mood, go on, miss the flowers, you will harvest the rain, miss this one, you will meet the next. Harvard has a famous theory that the difference between men is in their spare time, and that a man's fate is decided between 8 and 10 p.m. Set aside two hours a night to read, study, meditate, or participate in intentional presentations or discussions, and you will find that your life is changing and that success will come to you after a few years. Love is very simple, because everyone will say: "I love you, will give everything for you!" Love is hard, because not many people do his promise. If you really love a person, do not promise to love; If you do not love a person, once promised will be betrayed. What do you regret the most? A magazine sampling survey of the elderly over 60: First: 75% of the people regret not working hard enough when they were young, resulting in nothing. Number two: 70 percent regret choosing the wrong career when they were young. No. 3:62 percent regret not educating their children properly. Number four: 57 percent regret not taking good care of their partner. Number five: 49 percent regret not taking care of their body.Life ten scheming: 1, life can not be too simple, moderate disguise themselves. 2, everything, to leave room for retreat. 3, don't say never, mouth without blocking difficult to become a big event. 4. Mature but not sophisticated. 5, a good state of mind, want to live not tired. 6, understand the radius of the way: no matter does not make trouble, not afraid of things. 7, can not be less two gifts, etiquette and gifts. 8, people float in the river's lake, to prevent friends knife. 9, I am a snob, find a reliable partner. 10. Lose face and be a human being. The president of Tsinghua University told the students five more important; Direction is more important than effort; Ability is more important than knowledge; Health is more important than performance; Life is more important than a diploma; Eq is more important than IQ. From now on, be smart and don't ask people if they want you or love you? If you want or love you will naturally say to you, but from your mouth, others will be very proud and do not care about you. Never care too much about some people or things, and let nature give us the best of it, for that is the way of the world: it is often in the things we care most about that we have least value. A person's achievement is not measured by money, but how many people you treat well and how many people miss you in your life. A businessman's book, which records income and expenditure, is profit when the two numbers are subtracted. The ledger of human life, records love and be loved, two numbers add up, is achievement. There is no absolute happiness in the world, only not happy heart. Happy is your own thing, as long as you want, you can be happy; Even if, in the eyes of others, you don't even have the capital to be happy. The most precious thing in the world is not "can't get" and "lost", but now can grasp the happiness. What is happiness? Happiness is every little wish can be realized, happiness is simple life. Sometimes, clearly have a lot of words to say, but do not know how to express; Sometimes, their dreams are a lot, but not from the heart; Sometimes, others misunderstood their unintentional words, the heart depressed panic; Sometimes, the heart suddenly out of a tired mood, feel very tired very tired; Sometimes, found that they grew up overnight, but can not see their future, confused at a loss. Don't always compare yourself with others, people have their own characteristics, can not do a tree, can do grass, can not do the captain, can be a sailor, the most important thing is to know yourself, find yourself, do the best yourself! Dream a, drunk a, after wake up, everything is like the passing clouds, if you can't have, then forget is the best choice, life is short and fragile life can't carry too much load, learn to forget, forget those who shouldn't remember things, forget everything that does not belong to you, no matter how beautiful scenery, we can only do a short appreciate, Life can't be perfect, a life with regrets is a real life. Life is like a dream, the years are merciless. Suddenly look back, only to find people alive is a kind of mood. Poor or rich, win or lose. Everything is in the past. Think, no matter yesterday, today, tomorrow, can suddenly bright is a good day. Regardless of family, friendship, love, can always cherish is a good mood. Each of us has been at the crossroads of our lives countless times. We have been confused, waiting, begging, and choose to give up. Choose what you cannot bear to give up, and give up what you cannot choose. Life can not be over again, everyone can not repeat standing at the same intersection. But please don't be afraid to choose, because there is no perfect good or bad choice, each choice will bring you a different feeling and a different kind of wonderful. A person always look up and envy the happiness of others, a look back, but found himself being looked up and envy. In fact, everyone is happy. Just, your happiness, often in the eyes of others. Pain, just know how to protect themselves; Cry, just know what the heartache is feeling; Silly, just know timely adhere to and give up; Love, just know that they are actually very fragile -- in fact, life does not need so many meaningless persistent, nothing really can not cut. Life only comes out of the beautiful, not out of the brilliant; There is no beginning of life, and there is no end that cannot be saved. When all is lost, there is no reason to despair while there is life. We may not change the environment, but we can change ourselves; Can not change the past, but can grasp the present; Not everything is smooth, but you can do everything with heart; You can't choose your looks, but you can show your smile. There is spring in the heart, heart can be in full bloom; The sea in the heart, mind to open; Abdomen has good ideas, things can be agile; Eyes have jiongGod, eyes can be keen; Arm strength, hand to have a heavy fist; Footsteps have rhythm, walking to light. If you want to become famous quickly, then you have to slow down to sleep; If you want to quickly grow wisdom, then you have to slow down the pride. If you want to slow down the aging, then you have to learn quickly; If you want to slow down, then you have to move fast. Not afraid of the road is far, afraid of short ambition; Not afraid of slow, afraid often stand; Not afraid of poverty, afraid of lazy lazy; Not afraid of opponents tough, afraid of their fibrillation. Good mood will have a good scenery, good vision will have a good discovery, good thinking will have a good idea. Happiness to people to comfort, but also to people to premature death; Work to a person to hone, but can give a person to a long time. People can not be beautiful, but to health; People can not be great, but to be happy; People can not be perfect, but to pursue. With the spray of knowledge to promote the sail of thinking, with the Mars of wisdom to ignite the spark of thought, with the romantic passion to create a better life, with the power of science to strong takeoff of the wings! Only make their own self - confident heart, bending body can be straight; Only to make their weak body strong, bound steps to stride; Only make their narrow mind open up, short-sighted vision to put far away; Only make their own stupid mind wise up, stupid fantasy can be abandoned! Do not ignite the spark of wisdom, smart mind will become stupid; Romantic ideals will lose their luster if they do not practice their goals. Do not cherish the precious time, the years of life will become short; If you don't learn from your failures, even simple things can go wrong. The starting point of love is love, but the foothold is hate; The starting point of jealousy is to enter, but the foothold is to retreat; Dream starting point is gorgeous (bad), the foothold is empty; The starting point of greed is surplus, but the foothold is deficit.
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