Internal conflict mostly comes from our narrow perspective

Very often, most of life's problems come from the narrow perspective of our inner thinking. If we just live in our world, we can easily feel hurt and easily think that others want to hurt themselves.

And really strong people will deeply understand that behind the pain is often our wishful thinking and unwillingness to accept the truth.

When we are willing to shift our perspective, our inner life will naturally become stronger.

First, cultivate the perspective of the other and know how to think differently

If we want to shift our perspective, the first step is to learn to bring in the eyes of the other. Introducing the vision of the other is to tell us that the world is not just about you, it is a common world for everyone.

Philosophers often refer to the "spectator's eye", which is to make yourself the object of your thinking and then see yourself in the third person.

Suppose you are going to a party with friends, you may think about how people around you will look at you, have I dressed appropriately, is my hair okay like this, and focus on your dress by putting yourself in the eyes of the Other.

Bringing in the eyes of the other makes us more aware of what is going on around us and the whole so that no matter what you do, you will experience more perspective and make yourself more presentable.

When we bring in the eyes of others, we also need to think collectively about society to realize what the collective needs are and to help us see the collective truth better.

Consistently doing this helps us to become wise. Good growth is seeing the larger world, and when we can realize that the world and ourselves are one, we can truly save lives.

Second, let go of the standard answer inside

Most human distress comes from our desire for certainty, and the desire for certainty is the source of our confusion and anxiety.

We received too many lessons as children that there are standard answers to questions, and as you get further and further away from them, you realize that it seems like you are not right in any way.

Children used to be the most creative, and when you start believing that everything needs a standard answer, your minds and thoughts are imprisoned.

The truth is that there are many times in life when there are no standard answers, so we do everything trying to find the standard answer, but instead, we get further and further away from the truth.

The real growth is that we keep going through and experiencing, which is the root, in the experience and experience, we see how far we can go.

And in fact, any problems often come based on our constant growth as well. Life is a process of continually experiencing and continually living.

We don't cling to problems, but rather run with them, and as we grow, they slowly become smaller and smaller.

And every stage of life will have its problems, you have to deeply understand that the essence of the problem is to remind us to return to our hearts, and what kind of life we want.

When you stop seeking the same answers as the outside world, your inner self will open up and will pay deep attention to what your needs are.

Letting go of the standard answers is the key to opening ourselves up and making us realize that there are many ways and means to grow in life.

Third, find your rhythm from the inner volume

Each generation has the mission of each generation, now the post-95 and post-00, often find that now more and more inwardly rolled, inwardly rolled is a way to get our lives into the more ineffective competition.

If you do not accept it at all, completely and especially Buddhist state, you may be out of the game. But on the other hand, your all-encompassing, tireless involution is unnecessary.

If you think life is caught up in involution, you can think about how to shape yourself. The nature of involution turns life into a race for survival resources while ignoring our overall innovation.

And to get rid of involution, the most important thing is to embrace your life, inspire courage and motivation in your inner life, make yourself think better about the meaning and value of your inner life, do more things that make you happy, open your life and activate your inner motivation.

Most of the time, involution is a runway, many people are coming together, resulting in fewer and fewer resources, and using a creative perspective to open up new markets is always the key for us to be able to get out of a new one.

So when you are afraid of getting caught in an inward roll, ask yourself what you want to achieve in your life, follow the guidance of your goals, and maybe you will find yourself in a very different place.

True strength comes from our inner discovery and breakthrough. We can only truly come out if we continue to break through our small inner world and embrace the bigger world instead.