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In God's Timing, Everything Is Absolute!

Do what you can do, and leave to God what you can't do.

By Barlin ChavesPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
Guimaras Island, Philippines Adventure With My Daughter.

So what if I am a “single mom?” Is there a problem with that? It really doesn’t mean I don’t know how to love, and don’t deserve to be loved. That is so wrong. First of all, if people don’t exactly know why I became one, they shouldn't just assume anything like they know why and how. I don’t seek any validation from anyone. And I don’t want to explain myself just to get accepted. I don’t expect that everyone would like me or understand me, just know Respect. All those negative words throwing at me, it doesn’t really bother me at all. I want to keep myself real and love those who love me for who I am. I am focusing more on my inner peace and repenting my sins from the past by making myself a better person everyday. So if you are that person who knows nothing but to try to hurt someone like me ,even through harsh words, I can only walk away and I will keep moving forward.

Every little step I make counts no matter how hard and rough the road I am taking, my faith in God is what keeps me going. A true follower of God should know what God is trying or rather say ,wanting us to become. I did embrace myself and forgave myself for not being a good person back then. Everything that happened, happening, and will happen in my life will all make sense one day because I firmly believe that “In God’s TIMING, Everything is ABSOLUTE!” (My word of wisdom)

Let’s be kind to one another. This is one of the simplest things to do that surprisingly can make a big difference. Kind words can brighten up someone or cheer someone up when they are having a bad day or going through something in life. There are some people who need that. Sometimes, we just want to feel that there is at least one person who cares for our well-being.

We are all trying to live our lives for different purposes and trying to find each one’s happiness. We should stop hating and be one of the good examples of what humanity really is. After all, we are all gonna leave this world when our time is up. Atleast, leave something that can inspire others of what you have achieved when that time comes.

When you start reflecting on your own self, you will then see what you haven’t seen, you will hear what you haven’t heard, feel what you haven’t felt, and understand more what you haven’t understood before. Having wisdom will bring you inner peace and everything else will follow. Keep the faith stronger whenever you feel like you are losing hope. Invision where you want to be and never give up on getting there. Time and experience will eventually make us stronger and wiser in life. It is always better to do something and see results ,either failure or success, than doing nothing at all.

Being a single parent is surely not easy. It takes a lot of sacrifices and hard work to make good things happen. Sometimes, we have to lose something to gain something better in life. To see my child happy and well is my motivation to work harder and get better in everything that I do. Don't let any of your failures stop you from what you think and feel that is best for you. For all the single parents like me out there, you are doing great! Be strong and Don't give up. You can do it! We can do it!

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About the Creator

Barlin Chaves

Sugar & spice and everything nice. It’s always “LinVenture” time w friends & family. I am an Ice cream hunter/ Foodie/ Adventurer.

I love Philosophy and Arts.

I draw my favorite anime.

I mentor people about "inner peace.”

Life is BEAUTIFUL!💜

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