How Can We Energetically Support Our Deceased Loved Ones?

Dear soul friends, we are all energy, and this energy never disappears; it only transforms. When we lose our loved ones physically, we may think that our bond with them is completely severed. However, their spiritual journey continues, and we can still touch their energy with love. So, how can we truly support our deceased loved ones?

The soul desires to experience the world repeatedly to complete its process of evolution. Especially some souls, unable to fully complete this journey, do not want to detach from the world even after death. Sometimes this is due to earthly attachments, and sometimes it is due to dependency on a person. Imagine suddenly passing away while being preoccupied with life’s responsibilities! When the soul leaves the body, it experiences shock, unable to believe or accept that it has died. Because it had so many unfinished tasks, or there were loved ones it still wanted to see and touch.

A profound sense of loneliness, a cold and indescribable feeling, keeps the soul caught between transitioning or not. Like a movie reel, it watches its entire life from birth to death. It does not want to leave us! It cannot accept death nor separate from its loved ones. The love bond between us and them is like an unbreakable cord. In reality, death is not an end but a rebirth.

Yes, I know how difficult it is to be separated from our loved ones. However, since our energetic connection with them still continues, have we ever thought about how we might help or harm them? I am sure that some of you are aware of this.

Dear soul friends, I want to share a personal experience with you. Throughout my life, I have always conducted spiritual research and continue to do so. I once asked a medium I spoke to directly, “Have you ever communicated with a soul who could not complete their transition and was deeply affected by it?” She replied, “Yes, I have.” Her eyes filled with tears.

“She was my best friend. We lost her to cancer,” she said, explaining that her friend had a seven-year-old daughter.

I asked, “Why didn’t she want to transition?”

“Because she loved her daughter so much, and her daughter kept crying for her. She could not pass into the spatyum. I wanted to send her off, but she constantly ran away from me. Her child would cry and say, ‘Mom, I miss you so much. Why did you leave me?’ Each time she heard those words, she suffered even more.”

“As a medium, I had normalized these situations due to my profession. I had witnessed many intense moments like this. But I think this was my most difficult experience—the emotional bond between a mother and her child. The grief, the tears… It made me feel terrible internally. Unfortunately, due to the laws of the universe, I was helpless and could do nothing, and that affected me deeply.” she said, crying.

I changed the topic and asked, “Have you had any other experiences that impacted you?”

“Yes, a young girl,” she said.

“Would you like to share?” I asked.

“Of course,” she replied.

“One day, while I was sitting at home, I heard a whisper in my ear: ‘Please help me.’ At first, I felt a chill run down my spine. I wondered if I was imagining things. I didn’t think much of it. But the next day, the same voice came again, this time clearer: ‘Please help me.’”

“I usually invite spirits to communicate with them myself, but I think this one was an uninvited guest,” she said, with a small smile.

“Who are you? What do you want?” I asked.

“I want my belongings. I am so scared,” the voice responded.

“What belongings?” I asked.

“I think she was also afraid of me because she spoke as if she was running away. Then, she told me that she had died while engaged and was too scared to transition. She felt alone in her grave and wanted her belongings back. Her fiancé had them. She asked me to contact him.”

I asked, “Did you do it?”

“Of course, I reached out to her fiancé. At first, he was shocked and didn’t believe me, but later, he gave me her things. In fact, he even left them at her grave.”

I asked, “And then what happened?”

“I guided her to the spatyum. I helped her transition.”

When she said that, I felt relieved.

My dear friends, I know that losing our loved ones is very painful. I speak as someone who has experienced this.

However, the more we cry and resist their passing, the more we energetically anchor them to this world. 🥹 Of course, we will grieve; that is inevitable. But souls need energy to transition. A spirit left wandering in this world suffers.

If we constantly hug their pictures and cry endlessly, if the mourning process never ends, they enter that picture and feed off our energy. This makes it even harder for them and even sadder. They cannot bear to see their loved ones in pain and thus do not want to leave the world.

What we should do instead is send them positive energy and pray for them.

This is what they truly want from us.

If you are still overwhelmed with grief and cannot move forward, try doing meditations where you send positive energy to them. This way, you are still expressing your love, but in a way that helps them.

During our cemetery visits, let’s talk about our beautiful memories with them. Because our energy connection continues, they will feel us. 😍

Personally, I respect those who have passed away even more than those still living.

If we want to keep our own energy vibrant and help them feel at peace in the afterlife, we should do good deeds in their name and send them spiritual gifts.

This honors them.

I send positive energy and kisses of love to the souls of all your departed loved ones.

💖 Stay in health and peace.

Nevin ♥️