FEAR SCALE: Fear can act as a threshold when trying something new.

You become confrontational out of fear. Because it teaches us that the plate is hot or not hot, you're going to know that there might be something on the other side that could hurt you or it might not hurt you, but you have to have discernment experience and the ability to recognise this. That's how you know you're healed if you're brought a new topic, a new energy, something you're not familiar with, and your first instant reaction, and possibly later response, is fear you're not healed. This is the one where people keep asking me how I know I'm healed.

know how to look around and interact with your surroundings to determine whether or not something is something you should be afraid of. It doesn't matter if it's politics, religion, sexuality, or anything else. If you see someone reacting out of fear, they aren't healed. What does healed look like? Then, in a non-fearful person, you speak your mind regardless of the situation. If there are thirty people in the room, you still stand up and say your peace because you know you have something to say, even if people disagree. I'm not saying go out here and try to be a negative person, be combative, and go back and forth with people just for the fun of it.

It's okay to be a troll if you want to do it. What I'm trying to say is that when you are a healed soul and a healed human being, you don't fear things that were made by men or things that were spread and made popular by someone who doesn't understand that you, as a human, can do anything you want as long as you're confident in your ability to do it correctly. It doesn't matter if people don't realise that you are on to something new; what matters is that you are not afraid and trying something new. I've met people, especially in relationships, where I've recently let go of someone.

They left because our conversation about getting to know one another was based on fear. I don't like change, I don't want to change, and I'm not used to simply giving up my autonomy. I'm saying that no one tells you that you have to give up your autonomy because any new relationship you enter will involve change, so wanting to stay in your old space because it's safe is fear. So, in addition to being afraid of change and wanting something you want, you're also not giving yourself space to even let go of the fear, so no one can enter even if they wanted to, which is why people keep asking why this keeps happening.

It's a disease, so when I see people pushing fear, believing in fear, and trusting fear over their heart, soul, and gut intuition, I wonder why things keep happening to me because fear smells, prays on you, and hopes that you're weak enough to not see your strength so that it can take advantage of you. Do you understand how fear works? It doesn't matter what the situation is; if fear takes over, it will poke at every single insecurity you think you know about yourself, everything you want to be about yourself, and it will take over.

Say it before a man. I was so scared that I didn't try and didn't want to, but then I saw someone else do it, and it wasn't even as difficult as I thought, and now they got the winning prize and the winning seat, and now that should have been my seat, would have been, and now you didn't do anything because of fear. You know that's how it works, and you should be afraid of stepping on a train track when a train is approaching, but you shouldn't be afraid of having an open conversation about what you need from relationships that make you feel safe and vulnerable without Someone is assaulting you, right?

When we go out and say, "This is what I want, this is who I am," people say, "Oh, you're too cocky, you think you're just too good." That's where we reach the point of confidence. Yes, since I don't fear rejection or someone telling me I'm unworthy, I know that I am worthy and that if I am rejected, it will be a blessing because something else will come along that will work out for me nonetheless. This is how a healthy attitude works. I don't want people to work with me because it's difficult and requires discipline. Everything in spirituality is a discipline.

Continue confusing love and light with something simple. Love and light is a discipline that you must practise daily and be conscious of everything that is going on in your own mind and emotional realm. This will help you gently parent yourself out of the trauma that was created for you as a child by adults who didn't know what they were doing. Now that you are an adult, you must remove yourself from situations where you were pampered and made to feel like you can't, that you can't, that you can.

I'm not saying you have to try; there may be things you don't like and you're afraid of, that's okay, but recognise that there is fear there rather than creating a prejudice and walking away saying, "Oh, I'm not afraid only losers do that." You're feeding the fear monster, and fear loves it when you feed it ridiculous thoughts about what could happen instead of actually trying. Now you start creating stereotypes, stigmas, and prejudice against things that you don't like because you never tried instead of being open to new possibilities and changing everything that's presented to you.

You sound crazy when you say, "I would never do that only poor people do that," but people still go around saying things like, "I would never yes, you would if you had to, if you were put in a situation where you had no choice, yes, you would." Most people would, and if they don't like it, that means that they have a good sense of autonomy, but that doesn't change the fact that everyone will have some level of fear that they must learn how to overcome, but it can't be through prejudice, it can't be through gaslighting.

There are many ways that fear can appear, but the most significant one is bullying. You can see it in people's eyes when they want to bully someone because they are afraid of something they have or because they are jealous of something they have. Remember, jealousy is a form of fear, so if you're jealous of something, it means you believe that they can take something from you that is rightfully yours, or that you can't have something that they don't have, so that's still a fear of achievement.

Fear is to blame for this. Stop trying to figure out why everything around you isn't working, because there's something holding you back and you're not letting yourself see it, or something is holding you back, and you're letting fear keep you safe because that's what it has done for you your entire life—it has kept you safe from yourself. Since you're wasting your time in the fear pool, you're never going to be able to expose yourself to what you truly want to be, which means you're never going to attract the things you truly want to attract.

You will need to occasionally leap into the deep end to see what you can do in order to learn how to swim while standing in the water. I hope this makes clear. I love you.