Every good person will experience loneliness

A few days ago, I heard my friend say that many young people nowadays will step into a late-night convenience store after work or after they have had enough to drink and eat. Without realizing it, I entered the convenience store, strolled around, looked at the crowd around me, and found that many people were hanging out like me. I don't know what other people think, maybe they don't want to go back to the rental house where they live alone, or they feel lonely alone and want to be with many people? We don't know, we can't read people's minds, and we can't hear everyone's heart. But I always feel that everyone who appears in the convenience store at this time looks lonely, and although there are many people here, the feeling of loneliness is still very strong."

After listening to my friend's words, I could probably understand her thoughts. People who always feel lonely may walk towards the crowd unconsciously, but usually, when they walk into the crowd, they will find that their loneliness will not disappear, but become more intense because then they can realize more clearly that "So, I am alone."

A philosopher once said, "Loneliness is often not in the deep mountains, but in every street around you. It's not a person who is alone, but a group of people."

Perhaps the convenience store is the "group of people" that the philosopher referred to.

These people, this kind of action, are probably the real reason for loneliness. If you don't want to buy something, then don't go to the convenience store, go home earlier, do something really meaningful, or do something you like, so that you can resist loneliness, and life will become more meaningful.

I just think of the young people who hang out in convenience stores every night, which are like a fire that attracts one lonely person after another. Lonely people often want to get away from loneliness, so they fly towards the "fire" like moths.

Some people once said, "I hate stepping into that dark, quiet room because when I open the door, the room is full of darkness, there is no light, no sound, silent as if I walked into another world, this feeling makes me feel suffocated. So I'll turn on all the lights, which in time don't need that much, and I'll play some TV shows just to have some sound in the house so I'm not so lonely."

So what if this situation is improved?

I think you can distract yourself by preparing something you are interested in or like, such as some good comics, some music, some games, etc. Don't always give the self-importance that you are a lonely person, which will only intensify your loneliness. Simply put, don't talk about the daily fatigue back home, switch from the emotions of life to the emotions of non-life first, and face the loneliness with such a mindset.

If you are feeling lonely now, then you should cherish this time because it is completely your own time.

We have to be curious all the time in life. Some people feel that life is boring, then we have to discover the interesting side of life, which simply means that some things must become very interesting if you force them to imagine them as interesting.

What you think the world is like, then the world will become what it is. Be sure to face the world in a pleasant mood, then your world will be full of happiness and fun.

Loneliness is a time that every good person will experience, I hope you can cherish it and try to make this lonely time not lonely, face it bravely and move forward positively, the lonely time will eventually pass, and then usher in a better tomorrow, go, stranger!