Don't be self-righteous when you reach middle age

One does not hit the wall not to turn back, to taste the bitterness of self-righteousness, only to know to go outside the people, the sky, not to the brain, and to do things outside the ability.

When you're young and foolish is not know what to do, people in middle age again, it is self-inflicted sins and can not live.

If you want to go more smoothly in life, don't let "self-righteousness" consume your life, one wrong step, one wrong step.

1、The greatest folly of human nature is self-righteousness

The frog at the bottom of the well" is the story, most people have heard.

The frog at the bottom of the well thought that the whole world is reflected in the eyes, but did not think that only a corner of the world, to generalize, is obscured by their own.

When you are young, you can not be afraid of the sky, not afraid of the earth to try to be a teenager, then even if you make a mistake there are parents to rely on, but in middle age, people can only rely on their own, then self-righteousness, is a disaster, obstructing the way forward in life.

There is no shortage of pretentious people in life who think they will be able to achieve something in the future, but unfortunately, most of these people are overly ambitious, good and bad, relying on their capital, thinking that the future is in control, such as the paper Zhao Zhuo that think they are familiar with the art of war can be invincible, but forget that reality is cruel than imagination.

Overestimate themselves, will certainly suffer the pounding of failure, the final harm is their own.

People in middle age, can not afford many failures, it is better to take the right attitude, have less self-righteousness, and more self-awareness, and take every step of life according to their ability.

2, the biggest illusion of being a person, is self-absorbed

Actions alone determine whether a person like you, a little carelessness will be misjudged when the embarrassment is each other.

The human heart is separated from the belly, who can not guess who?

Today is love, tomorrow is family, and even friendship, guessing is impervious to the heart.

Some people say "the first to fall in love with the loss of more miserable", and some say "after falling in love with the loss of more miserable" miserable is not miserable at the end who is still in love, if the two love each other and what miserable.

The so-called feelings the "tragic", but there is a betrayal of the relationship.

No one will always be free to love who, feelings are mutual, and there is a back and forth to last.

Never make a fool of yourself, overestimate each other's feelings, sometimes over-expectation, the harm will only be their own.

Love and affection may still have betrayal, let alone friendship, you think of the best friend, perhaps only you think.

You take others as best friends, others take you as a visitor.

Instead of hurting yourself, it is better to wake up in time and understand that existence of some people is just passing through.

3, nothing to find things, looking for trouble

People live to be annoyed by trivial things, which has thought so many people like nothing to find things, self-seeking trouble.

Some things have not happened, worry about this, worry about that, is undoubtedly in the vulgar.

There is this time to find things, rather than spend time on improving yourself, so that life becomes relaxed, there is not much time to think about.

The more you think about the things you are sad about, the sadder you get.

What others say, the more you think about it, the more you care.

The things that haven't happened yet, the more you think about them, the more depressed you become.

The fact is that you will be able to find out more about the actual situation.

Life is already a little bitter, and at this time there is nothing to find things, is undoubtedly bitter on top of bitter, fear is not waiting for things to happen and can not survive.

If you want to go more smoothly in life, you mustn't think about it, look for trouble, live in the moment and be the best you can be.