A person's power is the transformation from the inside out

The choice in life, again and again, pulls apart the gap between people, someone is getting stronger, someone is getting smaller.

However, a person's power or not, not overnight, is the metamorphosis after the grinding, which is the process of accumulation over months and months.

Although the experience of more things, the accumulation of more, but not experience more things can become more powerful, but need to grow in all aspects.

1. often self-reflection, willing to correct

"I have to think about myself three times a day, for people to seek but not loyalty? Make friends with friends and not trust? Passing on not practice?"

No one is perfect, gold is not perfect, born as a human being will inevitably have shortcomings, only the difference between more and less, as long as the willingness to correct, then there is room for progress.

A person, whether it is a conceited, or inferiority complex, in the end, is prone to make their own "injury".

The former is very high self-esteem, does not care to look at the road underfoot, easy to ignores even the obvious traps, and finally hurts themselves; the latter is too low self-esteem, even the courage to try is not, and is finally stubbornly limited by this.

Instead of seeing yourself as too high or too low, you should learn to look at your strengths and weaknesses with a normal heart.

In the face of the advantages, to hold a learning mindset to seek further improvement, do not become conceited because of a few advantages, to know that "there are people outside, there is a sky outside" than you are a great number of people.

In the face of shortcomings, we must first set the right mindset, not feel that the existence of shortcomings is a shame, and think differently, the existence of shortcomings is the space for progress, only through continuous self-correction, to achieve a better self.

If a person wants to become better, the first thing to do is to face their shortcomings, and pay efforts to correct them, otherwise, then efforts and shortcomings still exist, and want to go not far.

2. Will self-discipline, into the habit

It is said that "self-discipline to pay action is better than saying a million times the effort." A person's efforts, should not just talk about it, talk more, but also better to do on the ground.

I have a friend, every year will write their annual plan, at the beginning of the year can still complete one or two things, but I do not know if it is inertia or what, and then the plan has become a decoration, the year said to work hard, the end of the year has become a joke.

The things you want to do, one did not do, should be self-discipline to live, but the mix of life into a daily routine.

The dream is always a dream, and when you wake up at midnight, you will inevitably regret that you gave up lightly and did not have the heart to force yourself to persevere.

Mixed life and self-discipline are also alive, just mixed life easy at the moment, bitter later; and self-discipline life, as long as the suffering of the moment, will eventually harvest tomorrow's good.

Therefore, it is better to eat bitterness in the future than to eat some bitterness in the present. Only by gritting your teeth and persevering, swallowing the bitterness and tiredness of life, can you embrace the real beauty.

When self-discipline becomes a habit, life will be as wonderful as the open hang.

3. Do not give in, dare to start over

Some people have survived the pain of life but did not go through the hurdles of their hearts, and finally stopped themselves from success.

After the failure, not without the opportunity to start again, but most people in the setback after the confidence is completely gone, chose to give up on themselves, even the courage to start over.

Some people are full of talent, but not the courage to start over, so once they fail, you can only lick your wounds in the trough.

Some people may be less talented than the former, but the victory in the defiant, willing to work hard, even if they are deep in the valley and not willing to give up on themselves, will try to find the opportunity to start over, so their life failed but succeeded.

Very often, it is not the world that gives up on you, but you.

Instead of spending time there complaining about your life being bad, why not build up your strength to prepare for a better start again?

Come on, as long as you are willing to work hard, the road ahead is no longer difficult to stop you from moving forward.